In continuation with my last article, this article looks at things that I will be doing in the new year to improve myself. However, this article will look at what I need to do less of.

1. Pointless arguing

I don’t think this really needs an explanation, but I’ll oblige. Arguments are a waste of time. Letting go and being the bigger person takes a lot of work for me because I have a constant urge to be right and “win” the argument. An old friend told me recently, “pick your battles.” Less pointless arguments means more peace.

2. Holding grudges

I have a really hard time forgiving people and letting go. It’s been shown that those who have trouble letting go of negative experiences and feelings eventually experience adverse side effects. I certainly don’t want to be ill. Less grudges means a healthy life.

3. Making excuses

A lot of the things I don’t want to do that need to be done aren't because I have made excuses for myself. Making excuses only limits myself from awesome opportunities.

4. Limiting myself

Speaking of limiting myself from opportunities, I will do less limiting myself in any way. Whether that means getting out of bed on time, going to class when I am suppose to, or not making excuses, I am going to work harder at pushing myself out of my comfort zones. Less limiting myself means more awesome experiences.

5. Doing things I don’t want to do

I will stop doing things out of sheer obligation. I will begin to do things based on my sincere desire to do them. Here's to less obligated actions, more sincere encounters, and more authentic interactions with others.

I hope that these changes in combination with the things that I will do more of will help me live a better life in the new year. I also figure that this mode of reflection will be more effective than coming up with a “New Year’s Resolution.” What are some things that you will do less of or more of?