Yes, you read that right. It's finally your time. Your time to branch out on your own, make your own choices and decisions and live your own life. I couldn't be more proud of who you have become. You are so driven to chase after what you want and will not stop until you get it. You don't settle for anything less than perfection and that is one of the many qualities I admire about you. Don't let that motivation die just because you are finally reaching where you need to be, let it continue and bring you unwavering strength to continue getting exactly what you want. So for you and all of the other almost-grads, here is a short list of things to keep in mind on your new endeavor in college.
1. Don't be afraid of new things.
College will be full of things you are not used to. Take on new experiences but don't ever let someone change who you are. Anyone who tries to do that is not worth your time. You're going to make lots of friendships, some will fade away but the ones that last will be better than anything you've ever known.
2. Not everyone was raised the same as you.
You're moving away from home and into a new territory. You're going to have to get used to other people, a lot more than you think. Your personal space will often be violated and you're going to want to stop what you are doing and scream at least once if not a hundred times a day. But not everyone was raised the same way and that is something you will learn very quickly. People have different beliefs and see things differently and that is something you need to respect. Not agree with, not conform to, not drop what you're doing to accommodate, but respect. If you learn that, it will carry you a long way.
3. Tough times will come.
There will be moments where you are conflicted, where you won't know what to do. Instances where you will question every decision you've made leading to this point. College is going to be difficult, I will not lie to you, but you can't let it get the best of you. With the right mindset, you will kick college's ass these next four years.
4. Don't miss a thing.
I know this sounds impossible and at times it can be, but there are endless opportunities at college and you should take advantage of all of them if you get the chance to. Obviously, schoolwork is the number one priority when it comes to college, but always make time for fun and friends!
5. Lastly, take it all in.
Before you blink, your first year will be over and then before you turn around you will be almost done with college. I know I'm not there yet, but the real world can't be much better than this so don't take it for granted. Enjoy the best years of your life.