Members of the Greek community pride themselves on their ability to balance academic work and social play, with weekly pairs being one of the most popular ways to interact with others and meet new people. 

However, despite their prominence and popularity, pairs are not the only way to be social, and neither are parties in general. Here are additional ways to socialize and develop relationships with some of the awesome students at IU. 

Attend philanthropies. And more than just the required amount per semester. Philanthropies are a wonderful way to get involved with other Greek organizations and give back to the community, and they also provide the opportunity to socialize and meet new people. Since houses don’t always have weekend meals, many philanthropy events are scheduled on Saturdays and offer lots of food for low prices. These are great chances to have fun with friends, fill your stomach, and help fund great organizations at the same time.  

Bring guests to dinner. Even if it’s only once a month, bring in a friend from outside the house to maintain old relationships. He or she will get a literal “taste” of Greek Life, and whether it’s a new classmate or a high school best friend, it will be an enjoyable experience and a great way to catch up.     

Attend campus events together. With all of the classes, homework, and sleeping to be done, it's easy to lose track of the unique opportunities IU has to offer. Try getting a group of friends together – maybe even your whole pledge class – and pick one or two events to attend. Festivals, lectures, guest speakers, musical performances, sporting events, and celebrity appearances provide a variety of experiences to choose from. 

Plan different kinds of pairs. Not every pair has to be a party. Try joining with a fraternity/sorority to go to a pumpkin patch this fall or volunteer in the community together. Have a movie night with another chapter, run a road race as a group, take a joint camping trip, or partner with a non-Greek organization to put on a “mini-philanthropy.” Even if it’s just once a month, work on establishing different kinds of social activities to build relationships outside of your comfort zone.     

If there’s a social event you want to do, step up and make it happen. Chances are, you’re not the only one who’s interested in participating. But whatever you do, make sure you commit to it. Be enthusiastic about trying something new and embrace the leadership and learning that comes with the responsibility. And above all, have fun socializing with the new friends you make and the old ones you keep.