This week's article is a little different. This time, I want to dedicate this space to honoring all the fathers who try their best to make their kids happy. When we think about being a parent, most of us see it as something daunting, and even scary. The truth is that being a parent is not something easy, it’s not something that you can go to school for or something you can prepare for.

Sadly, children don’t come with an instruction manual to help guide parents through the initial process. Although we often celebrate Mother’s Day, we really don’t take the same time to celebrate Father’s Day. I feel that the same importance and value should be given to celebrate fathers; after all, we wouldn't be here without them. I’m sure many of us share an amazing relationship with our parents, but I would like to take this time to share with you my bond with mine.

My dad is everything but usual, he's not like other fathers. My dad is more like a father/friend; he is pretty much involved in the lives of his kids. I guess he is a bit possessive, but I really can’t blame him. After all, I’m his only daughter. I was once told that my dad was actually not expecting me to be a girl. He was indeed hoping that I was a boy. It explains why he would always dress me like a boy when I was still a toddler. He would always take me to the park and he would try to teach me how to play basketball, baseball, soccer, skating, and how to ride my bike. As you can see, he pretty much treated me like a boy. Looking back, it didn’t really bother me. I guess the time we spent together was what made me so close to him. I’m not saying that my dad is not a typical dad who gets a little annoying at times, but I actually like it. My dad is very funny and I enjoy joking with him and talking to him about things. Actually, I often find myself confiding in my dad than I do with my mom.

Having a father is a blessing and I can’t tell you how much I love mine. Although we argue a lot because we both have the same temperament, and we always like to win, we really love each other. My dad is my strength and my continuous support, and there is not a day that he doesn’t tell me how much he believes in me. I know that I am not always a grateful daughter and that sometimes I do things that make him very upset, but he knows how much I love him and appreciate him. I encourage you to always tell your dad how much he means to you. Don’t let things get in the way of your relationship. Love your dads because they are unique and wonderful! Happy Father’s Day to all!