1. They're a waste of your time

These attraction coaches claim that there's one simple trick or a few simple tricks, but they don't make it clear what that 'trick' is. It's not worth the time to listen to some 'advice' only to realize that it never described what it claimed to describe. They just basically robbed of you of your time that you could have spent doing something else.

2. They cost an absurd amount of money

Not only will they lead you to a video that isn't straightforward or to the point, they'll also try to get you into paying hundreds of dollars for a "workshop." No, thanks. Besides, I'd rather buy extravagant gifts for a girl who isn't into me (such as a big assortment of lingerie and dresses) than to spend my money on an attraction coach.

3. They make sex a priority

Sex is NOT a priority in a relationship.

4. They shame men who aren't as active in the bars or clubs

Yes, there are guys who would rather not go out just to get laid.

5. They make you believe that you need a confidence booster

No, I don't need one. I've got enough confidence in myself. It's about finding the right environment, but I don't need an attraction coach to help me with that.

6. They promote toxic masculinity

Attraction coaches will try to get you to believe that sex is a priority and that the number of sexual partners you have defines your worth as a man, and when guys brag about how many girls they've banged, they come off as arrogant and disrespectful.

7. They provide conflicting advice

When you seek out multiple opinions, especially from these "attraction coaches," a male coach will tell you one thing and a female coach might tell you to do something different. That only adds more confusion for you.

8. They'll make you desperate

Girls pick up on this really easily.

9. They essentially promote polygamy

I'm not about hooking up with multiple girls. It's one thing to know multiple girls and to have conversations with multiple girls, but no one should make you feel like you should try to, let alone need to, have sex with every girl you meet. You don't need to date every girl you meet either.

10. You don't need them

Nobody can do you, better than you do.