Dear Woman,

You are valuable. You shine like a diamond and you should know your worth. You are worth the world, and you deserve just that.

So why settle?

If he doesn't stare at you admirably to take in the piece of art that he has the joy of knowing then he is not for you.

If he doesn't take absolute pride in your heart and the responsibility to not break it then he is not for you.

If he has the audacity to lay his lips upon others that are not yours then he is not for you.

If he feels he must lie to you and hide things because he is afraid of your reaction then he is not for you.

If he constantly makes you feel as if you are nothing compared to any other then he is not for you.

If he lays his hands on you in any other way than to caress your smooth skin then he is not for you.

If he makes you believe that you are not worthy of his love then he is not for you.

If he makes you feel anything less than gorgeous then he is not for you.

If he says things to make you feel as if you are required to commit acts that you do not want to engage in then he is not for you.

If he can look you in the eyes while you are crying and hurting and show no remorse then he is not for you.

Dear woman,

Please know that you are worth so much more than this boy. He is not a man. Stand up for yourself, claim your independence, value yourself. Woman, you are the sun and the moon and he is merely a spot in the distance in your telescope. Woman, wait for the man who is capable of your overwhelming love. Do not let it be dulled by someone who can not take it all at once. Woman, he is not for you.