My best friend just so happens to be one year younger than me. So, for those of you who have that year or more gap in friendship, this is for you!
1. College doesn’t have to feel like a breakup.
We are BEST friends. Nothing is ever going to change that, even if distance separates us!
2. Your first semester is not going to be perfect.
There are a lot of new, crazy things that you have to adjust to. It’s going to be okay! In fact, it's going to be amazing!
3. Don't be afraid!
I know that you are totally capable of handling everything with grace.
4. Your notes when I first got to college meant the world, so be expecting a lot from me!
Your bulletin board is going to be filled with all of the love that people will send you!
5. Don't let anyone or anything threaten to tear apart your self-worth.
You are BEAUTIFUL. You are smart. You are capable. You are important. If anyone doesn't understand that, you know where to find me.
6. I'm just a phone call or Facetime call away.
If you had a good day, I want to hear about it. If your day was absolutely terrible, I want to hear about it! Call me crying, smiling, or flat out bored. I will just be happy to see your face.
7. If you want space from your friends at home to get settled, then take all the time you need.
I’ll be here whenever you decide to reach out!
8. If you ever have questions, don’t be afraid to ask people.
Put your pride aside, and just ask!
9. If you see a cute boy, talk to him!
He could be a passing stranger, a fantastic friendship, or a forever lover. You never know!
10. Don’t hesitate to invite people (potential friends) to do things.
The way to make friends is to go out of your comfort zone and seek them out. Odds are, they’re looking for friends, too.
11. If you’re planning on rushing, don’t stress yourself out.
You will find your forever home, and if you don’t, then there are other places!
12. Get involved!
There are plenty of organizations that would be honored to have you, but don't overwhelm yourself! Find a good balance.
13. Hug that sweet dog of yours while you still can.
14. I’m going to miss you more than you will ever realize.
I’ve made it through one year of not essentially living at your house, but I’m still going to miss going home and not finding you in your room.
15. But be expecting me to drive up randomly.
I don’t know how long I can last without seeing you.
I’m so excited for your journey to come, and to go with you from a distance. I LOVE YOU!