Everyone has that one moment when you are talking to a potential suitor and then BAM. It hits you. You realize you're in the Friend Zone. Some may say this place is an awful trap, and others claim that this rejection is God's protection. The thing is, no definition is going to make that initial punch in the face any easier. Here are a few clues to help you prepare for the pile of annoying that is about to be thrown at you...
Clue #1: They ask about who another person is dating.
This should be obvious for most people, but if they are worrying more about the person next door's love life instead of yours... they are not interested, and you shouldn't be either.
Clue #2: They say that you remind you of their sister/brother.
While you may think that this is a sweet compliment; think again. No one wants to date their sister/brother.
Clue #3: When they say you're just one of the dudes...
ALERT FRIENDZONE APPROACHING. If they call you anything along the lines of Bro, bud, pal, or sister/brother in Christ.... run.
Clue #4: When they tell you about their past/current relationships.
If someone was looking for a future with you, they wouldn't be talking about their past.
Clue #5: In person they say let's hangout but never actually text you.
Good news! They want to be your friend! Bad news... if he wanted to be more than a friend he would be texting you first.
Clue #6: They call other people pretty/handsome in front of you.
If they liked you, they would be calling you those things. Nuff said.
Clue #7: They say that they aren't dating right now.
The "I'm taking a hiatus on dating" or "I'm using this time to find my self"... haha please, that is just everyone's excuse to scope out the premise before zoning in on the person they find most worthy for themselves. Once again, if they liked you... they would make it known.
Clue #8: They do any gross bodily function in front of you.
Yeah.
Clue #9: They straight up call you "Friend."
Last but not least- the most straight forward and down right cruel way to break the news to anyone that they are friend zoned.. to actually call them your friend.
My advice: Never look into anything unless the person makes it known that they like you. Until then, sit back, relax and guard your heart, because the Lord is preparing someone awesome for you. You never know, most of the best relationships come out of the best friendships. Don't rush it! Have fun and have awesome friends!!!