If you've been in an awful break up like most of us have been you will know how hard it is to become single again after having someone for so long. The heart wrench of a break up is like nothing you've ever felt before. It leaves one person with doubt whether they did the right thing and the other in complete despair. The adjustment of a break up is what's the hardest, the learning to love being single again. You have to adjust that you no longer have that "somebody" that was once your everything. Learning to be single again is hard enough let alone loving being single again. I am going to provide you with a few reasons why you should love being single again.

1. Clearly the person you were with wasn't the right person for you.

2. You deserve so much more, because if someone can put you through the pain of a break up they don't deserve you.

3. You are young and the world is filled with endless opportunities.

4. You will find the right person eventually, maybe not tomorrow but the day will come and you will be so happy.

5. Everything happens for a reason.

6. You will gain confidence being single again.

7. Being single gives you time to figure out your life.

8. Being single for a while will allow you to prepare for your next relationship.

9. You will realize you deserve to be treated better, and one day you will be. In the words of Jennifer Aniston "I deserve somebody who gives a shit"

10. Being single opens your eyes to new opportunities that will only make you better.

"There are worse things than being alone. But it often takes decades to realize this. And most often when you do, it’s too late. And there’s nothing worse than too late." – Charles Bukowski