Decoding Freshman Year
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Decoding Freshman Year

10 tips for surviving the impossible

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Decoding Freshman Year

Going into the first year of college may seem like "The Twilight Zone": new environment, different people, and what, for the love of hummus, is up with Greek life? While all these issues may be causing a tornado in your brain, there is no need to worry too much, you’re more prepared than you think.

1. New Friendships

First of all, everyone is in the same lonely boat as you. Sure, there may be a few friends going to the same college, but for the most part nobody is going to know each other. So, go ahead make cheesy jokes, be awkward, do those annoying icebreakers over and over again, maybe join a club or a sport! There are plenty of friendly fish in this sea.

2. Roommates

What if you’re a complete opposites or WORSE what if they don’t want to watch the newest season of "American Horror Story"!?!?! Breathe and take your daily dose of chill pill. Usually roommates get along fine, and you can easily set ground rules. For instance, my roommate and I had a strict no parents without an hour’s notice policy. Even if they don’t adhere to the dorm laws, and they’re the Darth Vader of roommates, you can talk to your RA or a friend about getting a new roomie or sleeping somewhere else!

3. Long-Distance Relationships

Whether it's a significant other or your best friends, long distance is difficult. Yes, you will get busy and yes, you may not be able to talk often, BUT there's Facebook, cell phones and Skype! Try and find any way to spend time with them. Plus, you have breaks to visit! So, ignore the doubters and at least try to stay connected. When summer comes around, and you get cast away to the jail cell known as your parent's house (yes, it will be that dramatic), you will truly be grateful you can escape and geek out with your high school companions.

4. Lack of Relationship

Never had a significant other or even a first kiss? No biggie! If you want to, there are plenty of opportunities, and even if you don't, you don’t need an S.O. to give you value. College is a no judgement zone! It’s all about finding out what makes you comfortable and happy (but safe) so that when you go into the real world you are prepared. So, go explore!

5. Money, Money, Money $$$

If you aren’t Donald Trump, paying off college may be difficult (especially a private college). Here's a tip: see if you're eligible for a work study — it has flexible hours and a kind boss (usually). Look for jobs that match your interests! If you're a theater major, I'm sure they need some help with lighting or something. You could also talk to the financial aid department at your school or an advisor or even a cool professor. Also, to save a little moolah you can talk to your roommate about splitting appliances like TVs, microwaves, mini fridges and furniture.

6. What To Bring

Going from your big room with lots of closet space to a shared box you call your dorm, there is some downsizing to do. Drop the prom dress and that shirt that you never wear. You don’t need them; if you’re not in PJs, you’ll either be wearing couture du t-shirt or work clothes. Bring a few mementos or pictures you can’t live without (small trinkets, not the giant teddy bear), bedding, a first aid kit, your laptop ... in other words: necessities only. The school supplies, laundry supplies, toiletries you can buy with your parents on move-in day. Heads up: you will accumulate more free t-shirts and water bottles than you can imagine for free on campus.

7. Greek Life

Trust me, Greek life is not just the stereotypical pin-up girls like in "House Bunny" or the dumb frat boys like the "Neighbors" (although I could totally dig a Dave Franco at my school). Each sorority and fraternity is different. They are full of every type of person. It’s all about finding the group of people that you love like family, because you are. So, give it a shot, what’s the harm? Even if you figure out Greek life is not for you, there are at least no regrets.

8. Classes

You will need to use your time wisely, making a schedule and lists will help, but don’t get too stressed out. Take a night off once in a while for some fun or to catch up with your good buddy, Netflix. That breather will leave you refreshed and ready to go for the next study session. Also, don’t be afraid to use the tutoring center or talk to your professors when you need help. Those resources are there, so put them to good use! (Club Olin, turn up!!!)

9. Parents

Call them at least once in a while, you don’t have to mention EVERYTHING you do, but it will ease their minds. Plus, they are probably contributing to at least some of the bill for your tuition. Besides, who knows, they may end up becoming a good confidant and friend when you're on the brink of tears.

10. FOOOOD

"I can eat whatever I want?!" Not if you want to avoid the dreaded freshman 15, you can't. So don’t always eat the junkiest food. It may be fast and yummy, but eventually that comfort food won’t be nearly as comforting as it once was. Also, taking a walk or a Zumba class can relieve a great deal of stress and scare off that freshman 15. Don’t be afraid to try new foods! After all, you already paid for your meal plan.

There still may be some trials and tribulations like shared laundry rooms and bathrooms, but just know that nothing is the end of the world. Contrary to much belief, this isn’t the "Hunger Games." Nonetheless Effie Trinket said it best, “may the odds be ever in your favor!”

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