To My Little Sister, From Your Big Sister
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To My Little Sister, From Your Big Sister

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To My Little Sister, From Your Big Sister
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I consider being an older sister one of the most important responsibilities I have in life. Being an older sister means you’re her confidant, her shoulder to cry on, and most importantly, her role model. While I’m on my way to figuring out who I am, I want to make sure that I’m able to give her any piece of wisdom I learn along the way so life can be a lot simpler for her.

So little sister…here you go…

First, you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I mean it. You’re my “built-in best friend”, you know me better than I know myself, and you’ll be the one standing next to me at my wedding someday. Leaving you was probably the hardest part about going away to college, because I wasn’t sure what I would do without seeing my person every day. With that being said, here are a few things I want you to keep in the back of your mind since I’m not always there to remind you…

Dream big, little one…

No matter how big or small, go after your dreams. If they scare you, be brave and take them on with confidence. You might surprise yourself and end up finding a new passion you never knew you would like.

Don’t stop dreaming…

Maybe you accomplished a dream you had been chasing for a while. If you did, I’m so proud of you. But don’t let that stop you from chasing after more dreams. Occasionally you’ll stumble a few times. If that happens, keep your head held high and never give up.

Be yourself…

Be who you are, not who everyone else wants you to be. If you spend too much time worried about being something you’re not, you won’t end up finding what makes you the happiest. You’re unique and talented in your own spectacular ways. Embrace that, because if you do, you’ll find positive people in your life that see how special those qualities are too.

Be adventurous…

Try. New. Things. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned that nothing teaches you more about yourself than jumping outside of your comfort zone. Whether it’s starting small with trying a new type of food, or something on a larger scale like getting over a fear of heights, always make an effort to do something that makes you just the tiniest bit of scared.

Always remember someone loves you and has your back…

You know that saying, “people come and go but family is forever"? Don’t forget that. People come in and out of our lives for so many different reasons. I wish I could tell you why this happens, but one thing I can tell you is that you can always count on your big sister. I love you past the stars, and I’ll be here by your side till the end.

xoxo,

Your big sister

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