Each and every new year we all some how make a promise to ourselves. These promises involve becoming better people; whether it be through working out, dressing nicer or trying something we have been wanting to try but have been too afraid to jump. 

This new year gives us an excuse to be different, to be more, to make something of ourselves.

Last year around this time I figured 2014 would be my year; turning 21, moving into my first house, having a position in the organization. I figured I would be more involved with friends, try harder with family and better myself through education and exercise. This lasted for about a month and I was then reminded that 2014 was going to be like every other year. 

I learned a lot though. I realized that people you thought would be there for you until the end will walk out the door without warning when problems arise. I saw that family is important, and even though there will be arguments and aggravation they will be the people not to leave. I taught myself it is ok to be alone; to depend on yourself to be happy and to reach closer to your dreams. No one will hand you the things you want, you will always have to work for the things you want.

This year though will be different. I mean it this time. But instead of creating shallow goals I have came up with some new trends to try this new year. 

1. Kindness.

In a dog-eat-dog world a smile could change someone's day. A compliment could save a life. A simple second lost to hold the door for a stranger could make the world a brighter place.

2. Patience.

With everything coming towards us in seconds we have lost the sense of patience. We want our dreams to come true now, we want to find our person now, but sometimes time is what makes these wishes come true. Patience is virtue. 

3. Love. 

For some reason we've thrown away the idea of love. People remind me daily love is not real, love is silly... it's not worth your time they'll say. Oh, but it is. Love is worth your time. Show compassion and love to everyone you meet this new year, not only will it help spread the love, but it'll help your heart heal.

4. Judging the soul over the body. 

This has been the year we've all said we gained a little more weight than we wanted to. Work on that, but work on your insides more. Love people for their personalities, love them for their passions, not the way they dress, not the way they look... befriend people who are truly beautiful.

5. Ambition. 

Never quit. 

6. Good vibes. 

Get rid of the "I can't"s, throw away the "I don't want to"s, stay positive and remember that the darkness isn't a forever thing.

7. Focus. 

Focus on the good things, instead of concentrating on the bad happening around you. Focus on your school work. Focus on your future. Focus on the now. Focus on your happiness and focus on bettering your future. This is your year.