If You're The Girl Always Putting Others Before Yourself, This Is For You | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Lifestyle

If You're The Girl Always Putting Others Before Yourself, This Is For You

"For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many" - Mark 10:45

45
If You're The Girl Always Putting Others Before Yourself, This Is For You
Huffington Post

If you're the type, you already know it.

You're the one who bends over backwards for anybody who asks, and you're volunteering to even if nobody does. You're the one who wears your heart on your sleeve and lets it bleed for anybody and everybody because you can't just say no. You're the one who runs back to the people who hurt you no matter how badly it burns because you know that the good times are great, and they need someone in their life. You're the one with the bleeding heart worn on your sleeve for anybody who walks past to claw at, the one pouring salt in your own wounds in order to season someone else's life.

Sound like you?

If you're recognizing this person as yourself, a lot of people may tell you that you're living life wrong if you're always laying yourself down to keep other people's shoes out of the water, but let me tell you something: we are called to do exactly that.

Romans 12:1 reads, "Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship."

You see, God calls us to be that person that lays ourselves down for others, and serves them, even when we get no thanks or reward in return. God sent His son to earth to serve and to save us in a way that we did not and will not ever begin to deserve, so how can we not do the same? Jesus tells us that when we serve others, we are serving Him, like we read in Matthew 25:40, "And the King will say, ‘I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!’"

When someone looks at me, I want them to see the love of Christ pouring from within me so that maybe they can look at me and say "there's something different about that one". If I can do that, maybe I can show the world that what's different about me is God's love and how recognizing and appreciating it has impacted my life in ways that are indescribable. Serving and helping others in any way I possibly can isn't always the easy route. I get busy, tired, and sometimes just don't feel like it - just like any other person - but I recognize that my good deeds for another person could be not only life changing, but life saving. My hands and time are simply the instruments through which God brings aid to those who need it. He puts each and every person in my life for a reason, and sometimes it is to help me, but other times my job is to help that person.

Who am I to shy away from the calling of the One much higher than I? How can I turn from helping someone God placed into my path of life? If I shy away from those in need, I've also shied away from God and the promises His love has given to me.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

190312
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

14963
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

457914
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

26663
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments