When Your Doctor Doesn't Believe Your Pain Is Real | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Health and Wellness

For Those Still Convincing Themselves Their Pain Is Real, It Is And You're Not Alone

It's valid, it's real, and it's not just you.

307
For Those Still Convincing Themselves Their Pain Is Real, It Is And You're Not Alone
Megan Carmen

Everyone has been there. Sitting in that waiting room, planning out what you will say to the doctor, running through the pain that you've experienced and making sure it sounds real.

But for some of us, it's more than just a simple visit to the doctor. It's waking up tired and feeling just a little bit... weird all the time. It's going weeks feeling fine and second-guessing everything you've been through. It's knowing there's something wrong but not saying anything because of the fear nobody will believe you.

If you are one of the people who can relate to these feelings, you are not alone. Your pain is valid. Your pain is real. Don't stop telling people how you feel, and don't stop fighting to find out the root of your pain. You deserve to feel good.

Even if it is a simple headache or waking up feeling tired. It isn't normal and it is real. Coming from someone who experiences unexplained pain, let me tell you that those people who say "it will pass" or "go take an aspirin" don't know the full story. You know your own body. You know when things feel off, do not be afraid to speak up.

If thinking about the pain you feel or trying to explain how you feel makes you tear up, you are not alone. If hearing others say negative things about your struggles or having to laugh while secretly wanting to scream is relatable, you are not alone.

Keep fighting through the doctors' visits and the inconclusive bloodwork. Keep pushing doctors to give answers and try things. Keep telling yourself your pain is real. keep looking for answers to your symptoms anywhere you can. It isn't easy, I know, but answers are worth it in the end.

In my own life, convincing myself my pain was real led to a diagnosis and a surgery to correct scoliosis. It has led to a treatment for horrendous allergies that make them almost bearable. It has gotten me doctors appointment after appointment with a lovely doctor who I am lucky enough to have trust what I say is true. Find those people who believe you and want to help you get better.

If this is not relatable to you, good. You don't wake up feeling tired or constantly finding new bruises in places they shouldn't be. But don't ignore this letter either. If you hear someone talk about their pain, believe them. Support them. Help them to get the care they need.

You can do it. Stay strong. Keep going. Your pain is real, and you are not alone.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Taylor Swift in orange dress playing a moss-covered piano on stage with bright lights.

A three-and-a-half-hour runtime. Nine Eras. Eleven outfit changes. Three surprise songs. Zero breaks. One unforgettable evening. In the past century, no other performer has put on an electric performance quite like Taylor Swift, surpassing her fans ‘wildest dreams’. It is the reason supporters keep coming back to her shows each year. Days later, I’m still in awe of the spectacle ‘Miss Americana’ puts on every few days in a new city. And, like one of Taylor’s exes, has me smiling as I reminisce about the memories of the night we spent together.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

A Few Thoughts Every College Freshman Has

The transition into adulthood is never easy

23913
Mays Island
Courtney Jones

Today I started my third week of college at Minnesota State Moorhead. I have survived welcome week, finding my classes on the first day, and being an awkward loner in the dining hall. Even though I have yet to be here for a month, I have already experienced many thoughts and problems that only a new college student can relate to.

Keep Reading...Show less
Students walking on a sunny college campus with trees and buildings.

"Make sure to get involved when you're in college!"

We've all heard some variation of this phrase, whether it came from parents, other family members, friends, RAs, or college-related articles. And, like many clichés, it's true for the most part. Getting involved during your college years can help you make friends, build your resume, and feel connected to your campus. However, these commitments can get stressful if you're dealing with personal issues, need to work, or aren't sure how to balance classes and everything else going on during the semester.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

9 Reasons Why Friends Are Essential In College

College without friends is like peanut butter without jelly.

9987
Bridgaline Liberati and friends
Bridgaline Liberati

In college, one of the essential things to have is friends. Yes, textbooks, a laptop, and other school supplies are important but friends are essential. Friends are that support system everybody needs. The more friends you have the better the support system you have. But you also have someone to share experiences with. And don’t settle for just one or two friends because 8 out of 10 times they are busy and you are studying all alone. Or they have other friend groups that do not include you. Don’t settle for just one or two friends; make as many friends as you can. After the first couple of weeks of college, most friend groups are set and you may be without friends.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

The Power of Dressing Up

Why it pays to leave the hoodie at home.

7242
sneakers and heels
Sister | Brother Style - Word Press

For a moment your world is spinning. The phone alarm has just scared you awake and you’re flooded by daunting thoughts of the day ahead. You have three assignments due and little time to work on them because of your job. You’re running late because you’ve hit snooze one to many times after yesterday’s long hours. You dizzily reach for a hoodie, craving its comfort, and rush for a speedy exit, praying you will have time to pick up coffee. Does this sound familiar?

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments