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You Don't Deserve Someone Who Comes Back

You deserve someone who never leaves

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You Don't Deserve Someone Who Comes Back

As young women, we can't help but every now and then, wish we had a little romantic company. Coming into college there's always those girls who get wifed up in a month and your just standing there like

Then there are some girls who honestly just don't care about the whole relationship thing and then there are others who as much as you want to not care, seeing kids in your class be all cozied up triggers you to feel some type of way. My advice to you today is


"Let the guy be all about you before you're all about him because, in this world, the girl who gives her all in the beginning ends up being hurt the most in the end."

My mother always told me how girls are more mature than guys, even if we're the same age. You and another boy could both be sophomores in college but you're maturity level is that of a senior, and he's still stuck in his freshman ways.

I write today because I have done this and I've witnessed a lot of my friends ( and even roommates) get hurt for always trying to offer their full hearts to someone, only for it to be thrown away. Everyone tells girls to "wait" and that the "right time will come" and I think it's true. Go out with your girlfriends and have fun.

Do not question your self-worth, or your looks, and morals. Know that you are beautifully and wonderfully made. Do not live your life waiting for the person to "come back" or wait for him to "change his mind when he's ready." You don't deserve to live your life with that thought in the back of your head wondering if someone is going to come back to you. Instead, I hope that you live your life, focusing on your goals and that one day you find someone who never leaves you in the first place.

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