In life, you are responsible for you. No matter the circumstance every choice you make in life you are responsible for, no matter the situation or influence. In life, circumstances may influence your choices, thoughts, direction, and actions, but at the end of the day, YOU chose to do such.
You are responsible for your happiness. Nobody else is responsible for your happiness and if you are waiting around for someone to make you happy then you will never be happy. You are the conductor of your life, you are powerful enough to do whatever it takes to make you happy.
If you want others to love you in a specific way then that is how you should love yourself. People see the way that you treat yourself and that is how they will treat you. You are responsible for who you attract and allow into your life. So don't settle because when life hits the fan, you are the only one to blame when things go wrong.
Your mind feeds off of your thoughts. So your mood throughout the day is a reflection of your thoughts. So if you think positively then your mood will be a reflection of that same if you were to think negatively. You are responsible for your feelings. So whenever you are having a bad remind yourself that you have the power to change that.
Kelly Rutherford said “You choose your thoughts, your perception, and your reaction to external forces. You possess all the tools needed to expand your awareness, to orchestrate the evolution to your consciousness, to choose happiness, to choose love. You are that POWERFUL “