Love. A four letter word that terrifies some and inspires others to write novels upon novels *cough cough Nicholas Sparks.* And somehow the majority of us yearn for a love that is already written about and we don't crave our own. But loving someone "by the book" isn't really by the book because, well, there are no certain guidelines on how to love. There are just a few things that you can do that will make loving anyone--whether it be your significant other, a friend, or a parent--one of the best experiences in your life and theirs.
Love with all of your heart.
Love with every ounce in your being. So what if you get hurt? As Alfred Lord Tennyson once said, "'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
Fall in love with their imperfections. It's what makes them who they are.
It is easy to fall in love with someone who you're attracted to, but when you fully and deeply love someone for who they are, imperfections and all, you will experience a love that is worthwhile.
They can hurt you.
And it's going to suck. And you'll cry and be upset. But you have to let your love know that it wasn't OK and how much whatever happened hurt and upset you. It's also important to know that you can't always bring up that one time that they hurt you five years ago in every fight.
No matter how long you have to wait for someone, just wait for them.
Because in the end, it'll be worth it. And it's going to suck. Because if you love someone, you guys will make it work.
Be goofy and joke with each other.
Don't be afraid to joke. Just know the other person's limits. Laughing makes you feel better.
Love passionately.
Kiss when you're fighting. Randomly tell them why you appreciate everything you do for them. Love them with a fiery passion. Don't be afraid to be sappy. That is something the world needs more of today. Sappy, cheesy, corny love.
If you do these few simple things, you will have a love worthwhile that is greater than any novel ever written, because it is your love story. It is personal to you and you'll remember every single touch, or kiss, or memory you have with this person. When you remember your love, all the emotions will still be there. And that is the best kind of love to have. So once you find a love that's all your own, stick with it. No matter what.
