This summer I had the amazing opportunity to work with young adults with disabilities, i.e non-verbal autism, down syndrome and other rare diseases. I never knew the patience, dedication and love it takes to be a parent with to a disabled child. I am sure most people have come into contact with a young adult. I know that it can be hard and it takes a lot of work to get to know and understand them, but it is so worth it in the end. This summer has been inspiring and rewarding.
Patience
A virtue that I struggle with myself. I am more patient now after working quite a bit this summer with disabled young adults. I had to take the time to learn how to understand their learning skills, what they like to eat or what activities they enjoy. Believe me it wasn't easy to comprehend, and the patience it takes is on a high level. You cannot be impatient with these young adults because they don't understand. If you teach them on their own time, then the experience is rewarding for both of you.
Dedication
This one is a big key factor. I worked with many autistic young adults this summer through the non-profit organization called EPIC (Exceptional People in the Community...look them up on Facebook). I had several co-workers who have been very patient, loving and passionate about helping them learn in more leisurely ways. They plan in advance to try to make everything fun for them. Whether it be dancing, theater, or even arts and crafts. The workers are dedicated to making learning a fun experience for these individuals.
Love
This one goes out to all of the parents. Their love for their children is so amazing and is contagious to those around. No one ever thinks they will have a child with disabilities, but parents of these children are exceptional. Their love, dedication and patience is an example to us all. To watch the love of their parents and siblings is a blessing because it has helped me to learn to love differently and more easily. While working at the Day Program, I noticed how the parents were full of positive energy. The families know that their children/siblings are different, but extraordinarily special.
Working with disabled young adults showed me how lucky I am for all opportunities as that have come my way. I learned this lesson the very first day of my job. It truly made me realize that I can go to my favorite college (ROAR LIONS), fall in love, have children of my own and accomplish my life goals. I am so lucky to have a job that impacted my life in so many positive ways.
Disabled young adults might not be able to communicate with us in an understanding way. However, they are truly unique individuals. They are not scary, they are just a little different and... "If you're lucky enough to be different then NEVER change" (Taylor Swift).
