Being young in this world is hard now without someone older to look up to. In my case, I was one of the older ones in my family and I had to learn everything by myself. Discovering the world by before my younger cousins was a challenge because our parents were still learning about parenthood themselves and they didn't know what was right from wrong. I want to make sure that my younger cousins don't have to go through any tough challenges without guidance from their older cousins.
1. Always respect your parents
Respecting your parents is one of the main guidelines to follow while growing up. Your parents are still learning with you, but just know that what they are doing in life is all for you and to make sure your life is the best it could be. Your parents got to see how your older cousins acted before you were born, and now they trying to figure out what works best for them. Try your hardest to give your parents some slack because raising children is hard especially if you are the first born. Don't be mean to your parents because it makes them just as upset as you are and then they will feel like they are doing something wrong. They aren't, they are just doing their jobs.
2. Always tell your parents you love them
Saying these three simple words, "I Love You" to your parents can go a long way. They know you are growing up and they know it can be embarrassing to those words but I promise when you say them, you can make your parent's days. Even after having a fight with them, always say it because if you don't they will think that you don't love them even if you do.
3. Don't talk back to any adults
Talking back to anyone can be read as being rude and nasty and your parents don't want that kind of attitude in their lives. Talking back will just get you in more trouble. You might think that what you are saying is valid and important, but with attitude it can be misread.
4. Don't be afraid of family time
Family time with all of your cousins can be a really fun and memorable time for everyone! Family will forever be your first friend! Don't be afraid to go to your aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents to help escape your own family because trust me, they have experienced them before you so they know how to help you.
5. Don't be afraid to be yourself
Being yourself is hard in a family because everyone is comparing you to everyone else but you. I promise you if you start acting like yourself, they won't be comparing you to anyone else but you.
So little cousins, please understand this advice because I promise you, it will making growing up a lot easier. Don't be afraid to call your older cousins and ask them how they dealt with certain situations. Keep on being you and stop growing up so fast.
