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7 Pieces Of Advice From A Recent College Graduate

For the incoming freshman about to embark on the same journey I just finished.

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7 Pieces Of Advice From A Recent College Graduate
Lyncee Stroman

As a recent college graduate, I have been reflecting on my journey, and the things that I may have done differently over the four years. I have concluded that the decisions that I have made have made me the young woman that I am today. Whatever I did not accomplish I have my whole life ahead of me to achieve what my college did not provide. Here are seven words of advice for current college students that will hopefully aid you in the continuation of your college career.

1. It is okay to be unsure of your major.

Although I graduated as a Criminal Justice major and that was my declared major since freshman year, it is perfectly fine to be confused. Do not let anyone discourage you from your passions, or steer you from your chosen career path. I currently am contemplating delving into other career paths because my major is very vast, and many careers require further education.

2. Seek internship opportunities.

I completed five internships in my college career, which all dealt with social services and assisting others. Internships will provide you with hands on experience in your chosen field, and often times if you are hardworking and execute given tasks, you may become a full time employee. I have made friends in my internships, and have matured in a manner that will prepare me to work with the criminal justice population.

3. Participate in class.

I was and still am a somewhat reserved individual however, voicing my opinions in class allowed me to succeed. It doesn't matter if you speak to your professors after class, during class, via email, or office hours participation could make a difference when grades come along! Try to step out of your comfort zone because you will be amazed with your growth. It will also prepare you for adulting.

4. You will not remain friends with your high school friends or fellow dorm members.

Throughout my college journey I had the unfortunate experience of having dorm room drama each year. Some experiences ended well, and I remained friends with those who I had a disagreement with. Others I no longer wish to take with me on my journey of life, and that is perfectly fine. Some people you will outgrow and situations will reveal a person's true intentions. It is better to be alone than be in an uncomfortable situation, so choose your friends wisely. If not, it is okay to move on and wish those people the best.

5. Don't wait to your senior year to make friends.

As stated before, I was a recluse and was only friends with my roommates. After the friendship became toxic, I branched out and became very close to classmates and co-workers. Unfortunately I chose to become friends with people who I knew of since freshman year, and I regret waiting for four years. So far after graduating, we have spoken almost daily, and I am excited for what the future holds for us.

6. Participate in your school community.

I was not active in my school until my Junior year. I met friends and acquaintances, and even became president of an honor society. I never dreamed to possess a leadership role, and I was able to articulate my thoughts to club members because I participated in class. Run for student government, join clubs, and attend student events. You will miss them once you graduate.

7. You may not find the love of your life in college.

I had this idea ingrained into my head that I will find a male suitor during the four years. That did not happen and I often found that I was too mature for the males around me. It is perfectly fine to date, but do not lose yourself in the process, or your values over someone who isn't worth your time.


I hope this will be helpful to you as you continue your college journey. Congrats to the Class of 2017 and good luck on your future endeavors!

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