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A Woman's Guide To Picking The Right Guy

You don't need to kiss frogs.

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A Woman's Guide To Picking The Right Guy
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Hey, ladies — Awful at dating? Are you tired of kissing frogs? I have interviewed five people and asked them what they think. Here are some ways to help you make a decision with finding the right Man.

Step 1: Know What You Want

If you are looking for a relationship, you should not settle will any guy. You should know what you want and then choose someone to date. It is important to be clear on the type of Men you are interested in and whether or not he meets the quota. Know whether or not you want a commitment or potential marriage in the future. It is important for you both to discuss what you are looking for before getting into a relationship.

Step 2: Make Sure You Are Equally Yoked

Having the same or similar religious and political beliefs are essential to having a healthy relationship. It is important because If one of you are Christian and the other one is atheist, how can you worship together and go to church? Or, how can't you stay at home and avoid Christianity? You can't. Politics are also important for relationships because not only does it relate to religious beliefs, but it also goes deeper into moral beliefs. If you have different morals, you probably will not agree on very many things. In return, this could cause constant arguing and unwanted disasters within the relationship.

Step 3: Find Someone Who Has Good Personality Attributes

Many girls are quite picky about personality traits that come with Men. The most important traits you should be looking for are the ones that best relate to God. One example is respect. If a man does not respect you, chances are the relationship will be controlled by one person and bring conflict along the way. Respect is a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities or achievements. If a man truly respects you, he will not test boundaries or pressure you into doing something you are not comfortable with. You may also want to find a man who is honest and has good communication. If you can not have conversations and lie to each other, that ultimately ends in destruction. Other examples would be moral, loyal, humorous, adventurous, etc.

Step 4: Make Sure You Are Attracted to Him Physically

If you decide to date someone whom you don't find attractive, it could lead to chaos. Why date someone who makes you wanna hurl when you kiss them. Having the traits you are interested in helps you to become more confident, expands curiosity, and increased excitement in the relationship. Some physical attributes the people I interview determined are Eyebrows, hair, eyes, height, cleanliness, tattoos, hands, healthy teeth, etc. As you can see, this list could go on forever. Just know what you prefer.

Step 5: Watch Out For The Red Flags

Red flags are important because you need to keep track of what makes you comfortable. If all a man wants to try to do is get you into the bedroom, drop him. He is asking for trouble. If sex is the only thing on his mind, he is not going to respect you or try to understand your wants and needs. You should also make sure he is not involved in any illegal crimes or affairs. Another red flag to look for is his pace. Is he trying to jump into a relationship or take things super slow. You should makes sure that he does not try to move to fast, but at the same time, make sure the relationship is actually going somewhere.

With these five steps, you should find a good guy in no time. So get out there ladies and find the good men!

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