When I was little, I saw nothing but good in my friends, teachers, friend's parents and even the ice cream man. I was taught to use my manners, to always say please and thank you, to always comfort someone when upset and to listen to adults. I saw it all began to fade once I started middle school, which is always an intense time for twelve to fourteen year olds who are growing into their bodies, and wondering who they are. Boys would get in fights or disrespect their teachers and get sent to the principals, girls would change and become competitive with the others or ditch old friends for new ones. That was a sad time in my life because the girls and guys I considered to be my closest friends in elementary school, asked me who I was once we hit high school. It hurt but at the same time I couldn't stop people from changing and doing what they love, It just hurt that no one makes an effort to reach out anymore. People forget, and then become forgotten.
I see it every day, human beings all of the same species tearing each other down whether its at work, school or even when buying a coffee. Democrats and Republicans are at a Cold War and instead of respecting but disagreeing with the others views, tear the other to the bone with harsh words and sometimes physical violence. It's alright to have a different opinion but don't act upon it with negativity or criticism, that makes the matter worse. Some human beings don't like to care anymore, it's amazing how much you could brighten someones day with just one small act. Thank the stressed out cashier for all of the work they're doing when it's obvious their day is going rough, text or even call that friend you haven't spoken to in ages to see how they are doing. Don't be afraid to praise people for their accomplishments, congratulate the person who got promoted or achieved something at work instead of being snarky. What I want to be remembered as when my time in this crazy world comes to an end was that I was in fact a good person to those who were good to me and sometimes, those who were not good. We are all flawed as humans, I've forgiven my ex's who apologized for hurting me and made up with friends I've fought with. Life is too short to be cruel, it's better to go out of it on a positive note. You can be a headstrong, independent human being but also care. Caring could mean so many things, that's why its good to show someone or something you care maybe once a day, you were given the best thing in your life for a reason, don't take it for granted.
