Why The Little Things Matter Most | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

Why The Little Things Matter Most

Appreciation for life's little moments.

2899
Why The Little Things Matter Most

Life is composed of little moments and monumental, life-changing moments. Oftentimes we get so caught up in the grandiose moments that we forget to relish in the happiness that the little or unexpected things in life create. I have learned that the little things matter most in my life. These little moments tend to be the ones when I am with family as my family adds happiness, joy and laughter to the memories I hold dearest. It took me time to appreciate the impact of the little things on my life, but know that I have come to understand what it adds to my life. I will always cherish the little details of life.

At heart I am a homebody. I love being with my siblings and my parents. Yes, I enjoy going out with my friends, but there is something about the warmth of home that pulls me in. I love the seemingly monotonous routine of home. The knowledge of what every member of my family is doing at roughly the same time every day gives me peace. When I left for my freshman year of college I quickly missed the daily routine that I took for granted at home. I missed my mom being right there for me to come home to when I was in the best mood or the worst mood. Her loving words of wisdom were mimicked over text message or FaceTime, but nothing will ever compare to the in-person contact that I took for granted. I missed my dad asking me about my day and me asking him about his work. There were also the times that he took out of his busy schedule to read over a paper or to come watch me run. I missed the constant smile that my sister put on my face every time I walked by her in the halls of school, and the loving conversations we had at practice. I missed my brother's teasing attitude and his constant support. I missed my three barking dogs as I walked into the house every day after school. I missed the little things that made my life special. These little moments may seem unimportant and are oftentimes overshadowed by bigger accomplishments, but I hold onto the little things that add to the bigger picture.

This past week in class I got a quick text from my mom saying, “I am coming up to Boston tonight and tomorrow for a meeting. I know you are busy but I would love to be with you as much as possible.” My heart skipped a few beats. This was so unexpected, yet the best news I could receive. Although my mom would only be coming up for a quick trip, I knew that every second I could spend with her I would cherish. From the moment she arrived, I told myself that I would soak up the little time that I was able to spend with her. The walk to and from dinner was filled with constant questions and answers about my life and life at home. Although my mom and I constantly text each other every day, it was nice to connect in person with my best friend. This little trip turned out to be a highlight of my semester thus far. I have plenty of highlights with my friends, school, my half marathon, when my dad visited, etc., but this little, unexpected moment adds to the list. It is taking the time to realize that home is not too far away and that I am always home because my family will always be there no matter how far the distance. This little, unexpected moment brought me joy as I was able to spend time with someone I love so dearly. I was able to take time out of my hectic life to remember the little things matter.

Life is composed of little moments and big moments. Of course the monumental moments in life are important to relish, but I find the little moments the most important. From the less than 24 hours I spent with my mom to the routine of home life, I have found that the little things that make up my life make it all the more important. Although the more minute details may be overshadowed, those small things make your life special and unique.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

180491
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

7476
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

452654
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

23372
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments