Why Random Roommates Are The Way To Go | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

Why Random Roommates Are The Way To Go

When choosing a college roommate, the best way to assure an exciting first year is to choose a total stranger.

67
Why Random Roommates Are The Way To Go
Allyson Sargus

Like any student fresh out of high school, your mind is most likely set on living with your best friend your freshman year of college. What could be better than that? You're comfortable enough to eat their food and share their clothes which is all a roommate is good for anyways, right?

But what happens if she finds a boy and has him over all the time? What if she gets involved with a new crowd and completely changes herself? Or if she constantly haunts you of your high school past? College is the place for new beginnings and new friendships.

That is why I chose a random roommate my freshman year.

At first, I was completely terrified. I had to live with this person for the next 10 months and didn't know a single thing about her. And that's when I realized... I really didn't know anything about her and she knew nothing of me in return. This was my chance to start anew. The bullies, reputations, and cliques of high school meant nothing to this stranger I'd soon call a friend. To me, that was the greatest part of all.

The University of Nebraska matches roommates based off of similarities such as room temperature, bed time, study habit, etc, but when it came to the thought of spending an entire year with this person, those similarities weren't enough. For what felt like ages, she was just a username to me, but thanks to my stalking skills on social media, I gained a slight idea of what she looked and seemed like as a person.

Facebook mentioned she was in a relationship and how she valued her family. Twitter revealed her humorous as well as audacious side. Instagram introduced me to her gorgeous friends and all of the activities they were involved in. I mean, we are known as the wired generation so why not use that stereotype to our advantage?

Beyond that process, little did I know that in a few months I would be living with one of the greatest friends I've ever had. The day we moved in, we instantly connected as if we were never strangers at all. We vent about everything, order pizza at midnight, make shadows on the ceiling when we can't sleep, etc. She is my college best friend and I honestly have never been happier.

So, what is my one and only tip for incoming college freshman? Be courageous. The world is so much bigger than that high school you are coming from. By choosing a random roommate, you allow yourself to venture out beyond the normal.

Take that chance; go random.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

189465
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

14445
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

457489
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

26436
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments