Why Our Friendship Is Unique | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

Why Our Friendship Is Unique

The Friendship we share is like none other.

858
Why Our Friendship Is Unique
Huffingtonpost

Every friendship has its unique aspects. Some people are friends because of similar likes. Some are friends because they have completely different likes. Some people are friends because they are sisters or brothers. And some are friends because they have been with you your whole life. My very best friend is my mom. To me, I feel like it’s more then just being a great mom, it’s about having her as a friend too. Mother’s are one of the biggest role models in a person’s life. Any mom would give their child the coat off their back.

I cherish the moments that my mother and I have together. She is my biggest supporter, my all time biggest inspiration, and she is my very best friend. Of course we have fought and probably have thought we hated each other at some point, but we would always come back to each other like an elastic rubber band.

During my elementary classes we weren’t very close but we still did a lot together. My favorite was the traveling, which to this day we still do together. During middle school, I didn’t have many friends. I had my mom and that’s all I really needed. Once middle school was over and high school began we seemed to get into more arguments than before. Every one goes through this phase with their parents. I wouldn’t listen to her, she would get mad, we would fight, and then sooner or later, we would be fine again. I ended up moving out of my mom’s house in high school and I moved in with my dad. It was probably the best thing I could have ever done. My dad and I got closer and spent so much time together that it took time off of me and my mom. We needed some sort of a break from each other to really understand how much we needed the other. I moved back in with my mom my senior year of high school and that’s when our friendship bloomed. I was constantly telling her everything that came to my mind. She would do the same. Most high school students would keep a lot of personal things to themselves, but my mom and I didn’t care. I would tell her every little secret and she never once judged me. Yes, of course she would give me advice and tell me how to handle everything better, but not once did she criticize me.

We started traveling more once I graduate from high school. We went all over together. We went to cruises, concerts, and even business trips. Any of our friends know that if Heather will be there, I will be there too. College came and I ended up moving out for a year, which wasn’t hard because I would come home every weekend to see her and hang out with my friends. Once my third year of college was coming up I decided to move a little bit farther away. Still close enough to come home whenever I want to but far enough to have my own space. We call each other every day to talk or share a story. We Snapchat pictures to each other at least a couple times a day. Some weekends she even comes over to where I live and we go out and have drinks together. We will talk for hours and hours until we are both crying so hard from laughing that our sides hurt. The friendship I have with my mom is one that I could never live without. It’s a type of closeness that only her and I share; it’s so special and unique that I couldn’t not share about it. My mom has done everything and more for me. I could never repay her for everything she has gone through for me. I love my friendship with my mom and I wouldn’t change it for the world.

Some days are harder than others. There are times I don’t see my mom for weeks at a time and it’s probably one of the hardest things to deal with. It makes us both happy that I am working towards my dreams, but things are about to become even harder. I plan on moving to Alaska hopefully at the end of next semester. What am I ever going to do without my best friend for that long?

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

179237
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

6402
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

451915
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

22969
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments