It is okay to wait for your forever friends and to try and force any.
It is okay to wait to figure out what to major in.
It is okay to wait to do your homework (but still get it done).
But most importantly it is okay to wait for a relationship.
I think that so many people, especially in college, want to find that special someone right away. It almost seems expected of us. Everywhere I look there is someone I know getting engaged or having a baby, but here I am and I don’t even know what I want to major in. I think that it’s okay to wait to have a relationship. It is okay to be selfish and want to hang out with your friends. I want to build those forever friendships before I welcome a relationship into my life. It’s okay to wait, because I am constantly finding out something new about myself and what I want. I am my own person and I don’t want to change myself just for another person. I want to wait for that relationship where I can be 100% me and my relationship only just adds to that.
So I am okay with waiting and not being in a relationship. I am spending time enjoying my life without one.