You're now an official college student. You're an "adult." If you haven't already done so, it's time to start doing things on your own. No one is going to hold your hand while you do your laundry, cook meals or work on projects. It's time to become independent.
Independence has so many benefits, here are just a few:
1. No plans required!
Personally, I enjoy eating by myself on occasion. I like being able to take a walk down to the river by myself and enjoy a sunset. I like taking a drive and blasting music by myself. I don't have to coordinate with anyone, no plans involved, just me, myself, and I. Plans can get complicated, words can get misinterpreted, and it can cause all sorts of drama. Being independent lets YOU decide what YOU want to do, and when you want to do it.
2. Increased Self Confidence
Having independence can definitely give your self confidence a boost. When you accomplish something all by yourself for the first time, it really feels amazing. The first time you go grocery shopping with your own money, step foot in your new apartment, or cook your first meal, are all cool accomplishments after having had your parents look over your shoulder at everything you did for 18 years, making sure you didn't screw up (thanks mom and dad).
3. You see the world in a different perspective
Once you really become independent, you will start to LOVE to do things by yourself rather than with a group. When you're by yourself, you look around more. At the world, at people walking by, at nature, at everything! Taking a moment to truly stop and look at this beautiful, fast-paced world, can change a perspective in a heartbeat.
4. You start doing things you WANT to do
Sometimes, you might think something would be awesome, but others might think "not so much." If you are independent, you won't care what they think, and you will go do it by yourself. Go to that pottery class you've always wanted to go to! Chances are, you will meet some great people there that you may have never met before if you hadn't gone! There really is nothing to lose.
5. You will find yourself
Not trying to be cliché, but when you are forced to start doing things by yourself, you start discovering who you really are. Your likes and dislikes and your pet peeves. You will learn that it's OK to be yourself, and that there's no one exactly like you, and that is what makes you special.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying to do EVERYTHING by yourself, but independence is a very good quality to have. It's a great feeling when you don't have to rely anyone but yourself. Next time no one can go to a movie with you, go by yourself! Trust me, it's awesome.
