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Why Having A Close Family Is The Best Thing Ever

Close families for the win!

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Why Having A Close Family Is The Best Thing Ever
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Because when you have a close knit family, not only do you have therapists, comedians, and role models, you have some of the greatest friends and people you'll ever need.

1. You always have someone on your side.

Whether you're right or wrong, there's at least one family member who will agree with you and be on your side no matter what.

2. They're completely, utterly, brutally honest, but you wouldn't have it any other way.

I mean, who else is going to tell you that your hair looks like a wreck, that the dress you love actually doesn't look that flattering on you, or that you're being a little over dramatic. You can count on your family to give you a slap in the face (literally or metaphorically) to bring you back to reality.

3. Family vacations are one giant party.

The fun never ends, and the booze never stops flowing. Let's just say it's basically like a super wild college party only your little cousins and grandparents are invited.


4. You have someone on call to talk to all the time.

Whether it's your mom, dad, brother, sister, aunt, uncle, cousin, grandparents, etc. there is and always will be someone (multiple people for that matter) to go to when you're having a problem. They're basically like built in therapists only better.

5. They're your biggest fans.

It doesn't matter if you scored a goal, wrote a poem, or merely just passed a test; they're proud of you for everything you do, which is pretty amazing.

6. They welcome in your significant other/friends with open arms.

Trust your family; if they love your boyfriend/girlfriend and friends almost as much as they love you then you're golden.

7. They know exactly how to cheer you up.

Family just seems to know the exact way to make you smile the exact moment you need it.

8. There are no secrets.

You tell them exactly what's on your mind, what you're feeling, and they do the same thing for you. If they're being annoying, you can tell them. If you're being a pain, they will also make that very clear.

9. They've seen you at your absolute worst and still love you.

I mean braces, awkward stage, annoying/over-dramatic teenager, horrible haircut worst. We all know exactly what I'm talking about...and they're some great people for sticking through it all.


10. You've been through a lot together, making you all closer than ever.

Through hardships, celebrations, losing teeth, learning to ride a bike, and everything in between. Your family has experienced a lot making your bond stronger every day.


11. You have a lot of really great friends for life.

Family is always there for you when you need them. They don't judge you, they don't forget about you, and they love you unconditionally. When you have a family like that, you have it made.


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