It is often that I hear lines like: “The world is a tough place," “Life sucks sometimes," or “Life isn't fair."
Yes, those lines can be so very true. There are many times in my life that I have felt sadness, heartbreak, and negativity. Some days I don't have the motivation to go to work or show up to class. I complain about a meal or how I have a headache. It wasn't until recently that I stopped and asked myself, why be so negative? Honestly, what's the point?
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People might feel like this article is typical and cheesy, but before you leave it, give me a chance to change your mindset.
It started when I decided to give up more than just cookies for Lent. I wanted to do something that would change me for the better. So I decided to give up negativity. Let me tell you, it is such a challenge. Our world is filled with negative comments and mindsets, there are many bad things that happen all over our world, but don't lose track of how blessed you are.
I started to turn what could've been bad days, into good ones. And it can all be done with a positive attitude and maybe a little help from the people that you surround yourself with. For every negative thought I had or complaint I made, I would think of something positive to turn it around.
Yeah, sometimes it does suck that you have to work, but hey at least you're making money. Wow, it is a rainy day, but maybe that will make the grass a little greener. Studying for that test is a downer, but at least you have the opportunity to go to school. Things are what you make them.
And from experience, it can really affect your happiness. I have felt happier and much more appreciative of everything that I have. A lot of times, a bad day in your life would be an amazing day in someone else's.
Always remember to appreciate things that you may forget you have, like good health. My mom always told me that you have everything if you have your health. Be appreciative that you have food on the table, you have people that love you, and you have opportunities in your life. Try your best to smile more, give more compliments, and give thanks. There is so much to love about this life for you to be negative.
Yes, the world can be tough, but you are strong. Yes, life can suck sometimes, but choose to make your own destiny. And yes, life isn't fair, but sometimes it is out of your control.
Choose to love life. Choose to enjoy the little things in life. Choose positivity.
