When the word philanthropy is tossed around, most people think solely of raising money for a specific charity, organization, or idea. Philanthropy is sometimes swept under the rug and so underappreciated that it breaks my heart. But honestly, philanthropy, especially domestic violence awareness, is so much more. Philanthropy is waking up at 5 a.m. on a Saturday to support survivors; it is donating your time so women can gain resources to get back on their feet; it is educating the community on a topic they don’t always know all of the answers to. When you hear the stories from survivors of domestic violence, it becomes so real, so quickly. So many people defend the “you were asking for it” theory that it makes my stomach churn. No one, absolutely no one, has ever been asked to be taken advantage of in the manner that an abuser takes advantage of their victim. Philanthropy isn’t just raising money- it is raising awareness. It is hope and love and passion for something that is near and dear to your heart. It is falling in love with a set of ideals and values that you want to bring awareness to.

One in four women will experience domestic violence in some capacity in their lifetime whether it be physical, emotional, rape, or otherwise. Statistically, that is terrifying and unacceptable. But you know what is even more disturbing, the fact that no one talks about it. The fact that it swept under the rug and undermined is sickening. So many people hide behind closed minds and closed doors when it comes time to talk about domestic violence. It is such a touchy subject that many people are unprepared for the questions and emotions that arise with it. Bringing light to this really dark subject is something that is necessary, especially in today’s day and age with the growing culture we live in. And as a woman who believes in empowering other women, I am here to say that domestic violence is not something worth sweeping under the rug and it is not something worth ignoring. It is a serious issue that is becoming extremely prevalent in today’s society.

From diaper drives to talking with actual survivors and hearing their stories, supporting Domestic Violence Awareness is something that has gradually became more and more meaningful. Taking the time to understand what you are supporting and what your funds and resources are going to is crucial. It is one thing to know what your philanthropy is and it is another thing to take part and participate in it in every possible aspect. Take the time to love it and live it. Become passionate about it and realize that you are making a difference.

Get involved on campus and in your community. The easiest way to spread awareness is through education and involvement. Talk about domestic violence and bring awareness to the sheltered community and culture that we live in.

End the silence, stop the violence.

For more information on domestic violence visit www.nrcdv.org.

If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship you can reach the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

If you are in immediate danger call 911.