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What Is It About Millennial 'Men' That They Have The Worst Time Committing?

It's quite pathetic...

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What Is It About Millennial 'Men' That They Have The Worst Time Committing?
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Recently, I have found it all to true that guys in this generation just can't commit.

Call it what you will, but it's almost as if they are scared of it. In my experience with the guys I have dated, it's almost as if they are intimidated by women who know what they want in life and are driven to achieve their goals.

I have come to realize that guys have a hard time committing to just one single woman. They feel the need to talk to several women because of the fact that one girl may have her life together. That may make him nervous because he may not have his life together. She could have scholarships to multiple colleges, know what she wants to do with her life, and know how to achieve her goals... Where he might not even know what he wants to do with his life or he might not even try to achieve anything great because he can't commit to following through on his promises to others and to himself.

In my personal experience, I have had guys break-up with me and ghost me because I know what I want in life and that I’m not afraid to go after it only for them to go after another girl who is just like him in the fact that she may not have her sh*t together either. They may just make the perfect match, right?

I personally don't know why guys in this generation have such a hard time committing, but all I do know is that it really sucks for the good girls who are looking for a good guy to be with.

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