Falling in love with someone feels like the most important thing in the world at the time. All you want to do is make them happy in anyway you can until it can takes a turn for the worst. You might think you are dating the perfect love of your life, but the red flags could turn your paradise into a prison.

There is a fine line between respecting boundaries and abusing power when it comes to being in a relationship with someone. Something simple like introducing yourself to the new kid at school could be perceived as you flirting. So many simple actions are taken the wrong way by the the controlling partner. This brings a whole new level to the expression, "Ball and Chain". You feel like anything you do could potentially blow up in your face with an argument. It may seem like the smartest solution would be to break up with them however, it is not the easiest. The feelings at the beginning of the relationship linger in your mind and you hope for that person back, but it may not be possible.

Some advice for those of you struggling with this issue is to move on. I know it may be stressful, but it will all work out in the end. You have to make yourself happy first. Love should feel like you have found someone you could be yourself with. A prison sentence should never be compared to a relationship, but unfortunately is it... often. Coming from someone who has been through it just know it is possible to get out. You have to think about what is good for you. Do not fall into their manipulation. Stay true to yourself and find your own happiness. Let them continue to feel insecure. You should never feel controlled, just loved.

Sincerly,

I made it out and you can, too.