I never thought I would be in a sorority. I don’t fit the “sorority girl” stereotype. Most importantly, I didn’t want to be defined by a reputation. This all changed this past February when I became a founding member of the Theta Lambda chapter of Kappa Delta. What changed my opinion?
Being a new chapter, there was no reputation or image on campus. All of my sisters went into this experience knowing we would be the foundation of this chapter. We would have to set the example and show the entire campus what we believe in and who we are as an organization.
Since I have been initiated, there have been many times I question what made me want to be in a sorority. Every time I think about it, the first thing that comes to mind is “no reputation.” Why is that so important to me?
Being a founding member has made me realize the true purpose of sororities. It’s to build women up and make a difference in the community. This is just not what Kappa Delta stands for. It’s what all sororities stand for.
As we see in the news, Greek life tends to have a negative image, and I used to be one of the people who thought Greek life was about social status and partying. Being a founding member opened my eyes to the fact that status and image are the farthest things from their purpose.
Since Kappa Delta was new to campus, I had no clue what other people thought of them. The most rewarding aspect of my journey was joining entirely because I believe in everything Kappa Delta is founded on and stands for. I think this is something most girls forget when they go through the recruitment process. We get caught up in image, status and reputation.
What it really comes down to is this: When you sign your bid, you should believe in everything your sorority stands for. Sororities were founded by women who shared the same passions and beliefs. That sisterly bond that we all want comes from sharing those ideals. Join a sorority because you believe in and are passionate about what they are founded on and what they are working toward. It will make your experience that much more rewarding.
