When I got to college, I never thought I would join a sorority. Greek letters, flashy T-shirts, and hand signals — this lifestyle just wasn’t for me. Well, it turns out I did become a member of a sorority and it changed the way I viewed the sorority life, because it truly is a sisterhood.

On Big Reveal Day, I stood before this wonderful human being, showering me in gifts and treats and hugs. I couldn’t believe that this one person was so obsessed with me through the rush and recruitment process. To be honest, it was kind of overwhelming, but in that moment my Big was all who I wanted to become. Smart, driven, creative, silly, passionate, able, and strong. All qualities I strive for. She became my role model throughout college — whether she knew it or not.

After my Big graduated I took on the responsibility of becoming a Big and a Grand Big. My sorority life experience wasn’t just about myself but about them. I wanted nothing more than to be their Mama lioness and rescue them from long nights in the library, save them from an interesting situation, or even tell them when they’re wearing the wrong outfit. When I became a Big I finally felt like I was a role model. I changed my actions only to better myself because of the way they viewed me. Every sorority event was filled with hugs and laughs and endless chats about the day. I could spoil them rotten and no one could stop me. It may sound weird, but I would even acquire “spies” who would watch them to make sure they were OK at parties when I wasn’t there. It may also sound creepy, but more then anything else, their safety and well-being was my main concern.

After finally graduating I have made a promise to myself that I would always be present in their lives because they make me a better person. No matter where I am in the world I am constantly reminded that my littles are safe on campus and in this world, and they know I’m always just a phone call away.