Over the years, catcalling has evolved into something greater, bigger and even more self-deprecating. In the olden days, men would whistle and perhaps if they were just really that bold, maybe even give a little hoot when a pretty woman walked by. Now men go as far as to sticking their heads out of their moving vehicles just to let women know what they’re thinking. Their thoughts are usually very poetic, however. My own personal favorite that I heard while walking downtown with a friend is, “Damn ma, y’all thick.” Very moving. Below are a few reasons why I appreciate the art of catcalling.
1. Catcalling proves that he cares.
Nothing makes a girl feel more wanted than being hollered at by some strange man on the street. Instead of approaching women respectfully or most importantly, quietly, men choose to declare their feelings for everyone on the block to hear. Nothing screams commitment like a man literally screaming at you.
2. Catcalling takes perseverance.
Do you really think catcalling stops at just getting yelled and whistled at? No way, girl. Being followed to your destination or even your car really proves that he is not trying to give you up. I can recall one night being followed to my car after I had already said no once before. I think I made that call too soon because after being stalked and harassed, I really thought it over and changed my mind. That amount of dedication really forced me to rethink my options.
3. Catcalling creates validation.
How will I know if I look hot today unless a strange man tells me? Seriously, my self-worth depends on how many compliments I can rack up while walking peacefully down the street. A woman obviously doesn’t dress nice or wear makeup for herself — that’s just ridiculous. She does it so she can attract the attention of every male she walks past. She won't feel like she's done a job well done until she hears at least three men say, "Hey girl, lemme holla at you," because if that isn't said, was it really worth putting on a good face of makeup today? I don't think so.
Seriously though, catcalling deserves more positive recognition. It's truly progressing and in five years tops men will start waving banners and just like the famous romantic scene from the movie "Say Anything," a guy will be standing under my window playing a tune to make me swoon. But instead of a silly love song, he'll play something more tasteful like Big Sean's hit "Dance (A$$)." So please, continue to flatter me and every other woman in public. I greatly appreciate it.
