Admit it, we've all done it...we've had that boy (or girl) that was head over heels for us but we were just not feeling it. We have also fallen in love with someone who didn't love us back, it's a vicious cycle that keeps going.

But it is OK!

I am not mad about my heart being broken, just like I have no regrets about breaking someone else's heart. Sure at the time it was not a good feeling, but I learned from my heart breaks...and I hope those hearts that I've broken have learned from me also. I'm giving them a chance to venture out and find out what they like in someone and find that someone who can reciprocate their feelings. I know they would not be happy with me because I was just not as into it as they were.

I am a strong believer in the saying"everything happens for a reason", getting my heart broken is just clearing the path for the one that will not break my heart; just like breaking hearts is allowing that person to find someone who will not break theirs and me finding someone who loves me and I can return those feelings of love to.

Sure breakups suck, it will take a while to heal and move on...it will be okay. Looking back at all of the times I have been broken, I actually thank those people for teaching me lessons and molding me into the woman I am now. I am also sure that the hearts that I have broken have (or eventually will) thank me for what I did, we show each other what we want and do not want for our future.

It is okay to break hearts, you cannot be expected to stay around someone who does not make you happy and they should not expect you to stay either. There is no point in being in a relationship where everything is one sided or fights are constant.

Dear boys I've spent time crying over, thank you for breaking my heart.

Dear boys whose hearts I've broken, if you haven't thanked me yet...you will. Down the road when you are surrounded by your beautiful family, you will thank me.