The day my mother told me that I would be a big sister, I ran my little fourth-grade self to my classroom as soon as I arrived at school and shouted the news to all my classmates. Nothing could wipe off the huge smile I had on my face for the rest of the week. For the next few months, everyone around me told me that I would get into tons of fights with my brother and that there would be arguing, hair-pulling, screaming, kicking, scratching, hitting, and all the likes. But listening to all of this made my 9-year-old heart hold on tighter to the promise I made to myself to always protect my brother no matter what. As the months passed, the excitement in me grew to insurmountable heights. When my brother was born, my parents left me at my neighbor's house so that I wouldn't have to miss school (much to my disappointment). I laid my eyes on my brother for the very first time on the evening of Monday November 29, 2009. He really was a tiny bundle of joy (with a full head of hair), and I couldn't get over how absolutely adorable he was.
November 29, 2009 ~ Taran was born! Srikanth Hari
I was so eager for him to come home so I could meet him and play with him. Over the years, my brother and I developed a relationship that was the complete opposite of what everyone had predicted would happen. We grew more and more attached to each other despite our 10-year age gap. I would help my mother change his diapers, spend hours upon hours playing with him and reading him stories, bathe and dress him, and answer his endless "why" questions. And as tiny as he was, my brother taught me some of the biggest lessons I've learned up until now. So put your seatbelts on and prepare to hear me ramble and fangirl about why my brother is undeniably the cutest, funniest, adorable-est, and overall the absolute best brother on the face of this planet.
When you give a girl a little brother, you give her a sense of responsibility.
Apparently angels like to eat apples.
Niki Hari
As soon as my brother entered our house after he was born, I acted upon my promise and tried to help my mother in any and every way I could whether it was changing his diapers, bathing him, dressing him, feeding him, or entertaining him. I absolutely adored him and always made sure I was as close to him as I possibly could be. Every time I played with him, I made sure I was as gentle as possible. Over time, my brother helped me develop a strong sense of responsibility because I was right next to my mother as he was growing up. He eventually started calling me Akkamma, a combination of the Telugu words Akka, meaning "older sister," and Amma, meaning "mother" (obviously, I was thrilled about this and still brag about it to this day).
When you give a girl a little brother, you give her a streak of goofiness.
Srikanth Hari
I was never really the kind of person to act all goofy and silly until my brother came along. Everyone around me would always praise me for my maturity, so I felt the need to always act older than my age. However, when my brother entered my life, I couldn't help acting like a kid. I would do anything to hear his laugh, even if it meant embarrassing myself. As he grew older, my brother went from watching me act silly to being silly right next to me. We played pranks on family and friends (and each other, of course), and spent hours laughing at others and at each other. My brother taught me that there was no need to be serious every second of my life. There was a time and a place to act professional and to let it go and laugh, and this really led me to appreciate the little things in my life that I overlooked before.
When you give a girl a little brother, you give her a lifetime of traditions.
Our annual Christmas cake-baking tradition! My brother loves to put the frosting on my nose every year. (Apologies for the terrible quality)
Sreedevi Parupalli
If you know me well, you know that I absolutely love to bake. I love making cakes, cupcakes, brownies, cookies, and I love trying out new recipes. I use every holiday as an excuse to bake a cake, and Christmas is no exception. My brother began to help me with tiny tasks when he was around 4 years old like whisking the already-whisked eggs, or dumping in the sugar I measured out. On the Christmas of 2013, my family and I went out to see the lights that decorated Lake Lanier. When we came back, my brother and I got right to work in the kitchen. We baked a large vanilla cake to cut, and a smaller one for him to eat. He decorated it with chocolate chips and vanilla frosting and at midnight, he decided to smear the frosting on my face and place a chocolate chip right at the tip of my nose. Thus began our tradition of frosting-smearing. Every time we bake a cake on Christmas, we always place the toppings we used at the tip of each others' noses, and I wouldn't trade our little tradition for anything in the world.
When you give a girl a little brother, you give her a (figurative) tail.
Nishtha Haleem
As an only child, I was used to doing a lot of things alone. My parents trusted me to do my homework first and foremost, and never really gave me much supervision since I proved to them that I could take care of myself from a young age. However, my brother could not have cared less. He would follow me around the house from the second he could crawl. To be entirely honest, it was kind of hard for me to adjust. I found myself going upstairs to my room to be alone because I wasn't used to the constant company. When I'd come downstairs, I'd find him sitting at the bottom of the stairs waiting for me. As soon as he looked up, he'd start smiling from ear to ear and would clap his hands at the sight of me. I stopped going upstairs after that, and would sit down in the kitchen right next to him when I did my homework. That's how my mother started to call him my "tail." My brother doesn't even bother to knock on the door to my room now. He just lets himself in, walks over to my desk, and gives me a huge hug no matter what I'm doing. I learned to love his company and can't imagine a home without his presence now.
When you give a girl a little brother, you give her a partner in crime.
Niki Hari
My brother and I are the definition of partners in crime. Everyone knows it. We do anything and everything together, from painting and drawing to spending our nights reading in bed, from doing homework next to each other to staying up at night watching movies. We prank our parents together, throw surprises together, play games in the back of the car together, and even give each other fashion advice. His idea of female fashion is so pure, it tugs on my heartstrings. He says I look like a princess when he notices that I'm all dressed up. How angelic. Trying to separate us is a lot harder than it looks since we are both very affectionate towards each other and have no fear in showing it. We win the award for brother-and-sister goals, hands down (sorry everyone).
When you give a girl a little brother, you give her a reason to smile every second of every day.
Niki Hari
My brother used to call an "only child" a "lonely child" because he didn't know that it was "only." This, however, spoke volumes to me. I really did feel lonely all the time when he wasn't around, and something always felt incomplete. The second he came into my life, I found myself smiling more and more every day. He became the reason for my happiness and my inspiration to keep moving forward. I found myself feeling so much better about myself when I would make him smile or teach him something new, and that feeling still holds true today. I can say without any hesitation whatsoever that my brother is the biggest blessing I have ever received in my entire life. I can't and don't want to imagine life without him, and learned to always put his happiness before mine. Even though he's ten years younger than me, my brother taught me invaluable lessons about life and people that I would not trade for the world.
Hey, Taran. If you're reading this, I want to tell you that I love you. I love you to the ends of the earth and back. I love you like every drop of dew loves the leaf it clings on to in the morning, like how the sunflowers love the light from the sun so much so that they turn to face it all the time. You're the best brother in the world, and I'm so proud of everything you've done so far. You'll always be my most favorite basketball player, and I'll never forget how you used to go to bed with that tiny basketball you drew all over back when you were a baby. I'll never forget how you would sit in the bathroom or on the stairs singing Little Boy Blue and Baa Baa Black Sheep. I'll let you in on a little secret: every time I miss you a little more than usual, I watch those videos on my phone because they make me smile so much. I love all the art that you make because I love knowing that I taught you how to love creating things that you see in your mind. I love reading your writing, and I treasure every second I get to spend with you. Going to college showed me how much you really mean to me, and you're the smartest little boy I have ever met in my entire life. Your hugs bring me so much warmth and comfort that I will never be able to get from anyone else. I love you so so much.
Love, Akka