When You Meet The Right Guy | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

When You Meet The Right Guy

Questioning everything you thought you 'knew' about love.

210
When You Meet The Right Guy
www.whoa.in

Everyone will meet their first love and not all of them are lucky enough to be with them for the rest of their lives. I, for one, am not one of those people. When you meet your first love, you think that person is the only person you could ever love. You think that person is the most amazing person you have ever met and that you could never find anyone better. That's until you meet the right one who changes it all.

"Someday, someone is going to look at you like you're the best thing in the world."

I have had many struggles trying to 'find' the right guy and these struggles made me believe that I was never going to find true love. But sometimes the best things in life are unexpected and that happened to me. Meeting the right guy, who I am with now, has changed my perspective on love completely. Everything I once knew as 'love' seems to be a lie. I didn't deserve to be treated the way I was and at that time, I thought that it was okay but it's not. Every girl deserves to be treated like the most beautiful girl in the world and as a priority, without force. Everything with the right guy should feel natural and meant to be, not forced to work.

Not everything will be easy when you meet the right guy and a perfect relationship isn't always happy. Things will be rough, things will be a struggle and that's okay. Nothing in life is perfect and nothing in life is easy but it makes you a better person. Just like in a relationship, things won't be perfect but it'll make your relationship better and stronger.

You will have your stepping stones. You will meet guys who will treat you terrible and, yes, it will suck but it shows you how you want to be treated. Every guy you meet that isn't the right guy, is just a stepping stone to the right guy and when you meet the right guy, he will (hopefully) be the last stone. Every guy I have met, every stepping stone, has made me afraid to give 100% but the truth is, if you don't give 100% it'll never work with anyone. Don't be scared and honestly give it all you got because that right guy will be worth it.

I have found the right guy. The guy who makes me extremely happy, cared for and taken care of. Of course there will be ups and downs but that isn't a good excuse to give up. You work through them and fix the mistakes. You don't have to see your significant other every day to be happy so distance is good. The goodbyes may be hard, but the hellos are even better.

So when you meet the right guy, don't give up. Don't be scared. When you meet the right guy, you will know and it'll work out naturally. He will treat you how you deserve to be treated and will make you happy. He will make sure you are taken care of and will care about you and your happiness. Give 100% and open your heart because the right guy will take care of it.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

197095
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

18973
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

460971
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

28356
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments