I didn’t know many things coming into college. I didn’t know how hard it would be. I didn’t know I would become constantly tired and stressed. I didn’t know I would lose myself and find myself again in the midst of two days or even two hours. I didn’t know it was emotional and frustrating but at the same time exhilarating. I didn’t know much of anything other than aspects of my life were going to change. I can also say I didn’t know I would ever join a sorority but proudly confess that I have.

Before I joined a sorority I had no idea what to expect.

Before I joined a sorority I was nervous and skeptical of what was to happen if I was accepted or denied.

Before I joined a sorority I wasn't sure if it was what I really wanted or even for me.

I knew my friends that were not in greek life would question me.

I knew the stereotypes and I've seen the movies, it felt risky to even try out.

But clearly I did.

When I joined Phi Sigma Sigma I felt the possibilities and development for myself. I felt myself be able to open up more, to so many girls, that all made me feel special. They liked who I was and they brought me into their family. They told me to aim high and that I would never be alone even if I convinced myself I was.

When I joined a sorority I realized all the stereotype were completely wrong. I do believe you won't understand unless you are a part of this. I didn't go through a process of hazing to get in, I went through a new member development process and it was some of the most exciting six weeks of my life.

When I joined a sorority I began to aspire to build myself into a better woman, speak for myself, love myself, carry myself and carry my sisters. Growing and learning new things about your individual self and being able to go through it all with the bond of sisterhood is extraordinary and not everyone can say that they have the connection that mine has.

The stressful days no longer seem as bad when I know I have something to look forward to and feel proud of. I didn’t buy these friends or sign up to party. I’m not looking for an excuse to wear greek letters and tell everyone about it to make myself seem superior. I simply wanted to feel okay with so much change, and make a difference with my time here. I want to stay inspired and contribute to the foundation of something special.

It's now easy for me to say to those who stereotype greek life that they are wrong and they don’t know what it means and possibly never will. That’s unfortunate for them but luckily I can try my best to influence positivity not only about phi sig but about the means of integrity and righteousness.

When I joined a sorority.