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What Do Your Fears Say About You?

Discovering what scares you can convey your true priorities.

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What Do Your Fears Say About You?
Jay Mantri

"The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear, and the oldest and strongest kind of fear is fear of the unknown." -H.P. Lovecraft


Is it possible to live life completely fearlessly? Out of genuine curiosity, I asked 19 people of various ages and genders what their biggest fear was and recorded their answers; what I've concluded is that many people of the same age have very similar fears, even if they come from completely different backgrounds.

1. Male- 22: "Going to battle."

2. Female- 20: "Something happening to my family."

3. Male- 21: "Not living up to my potential."

4. Female- 19: "Being in a plane crash."

5. Male- 15: "Being chased while I'm walking at night."

6. Female- 20: "Infertility."

7. Male- 44: "Something happening to me and my family is not taken care of."

8. Female- 20: "Being sexually assaulted."

9. Male- 19: "Not going to Heaven."

10. Female- 20: "Infertility."

11. Male- 59: "My wife or kids dying."

12. Female- 53: "Lack of financial security in retirement."

13. Female- 20: "Infertility."

14. Male- 21: "Never getting married."

15. Female- 57: "No financial security in retirement."

16. Female- 20: "Infertility."

17. Male- "Not living life to its fullest."

18. Female- 19: "Never getting married."

19. Female- 31: "Losing a child."

When I asked these people what they were afraid of, most knew the answer almost instantly. I found that what you're afraid of can tell you a lot about your priorities- if your fear is losing somebody in your life, hug them a little tighter today. If your fear is not living enough life, do something you've always wanted to do.

Ask somebody what their fear is- you might just discover something new about them, finding a new appreciation for that person.

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