As we get older, we think about the experiences we've been through and how they have shaped us as people, whether they are big or small. Sometimes we wish we could go back to our younger selves and tell ourselves what to expect, and the outcomes of the experiences we go through. Here are 10 things I would tell my younger self that I know now.
1. You’ll switch schools
This might sound crazy, but it's true. You’ve never been the ‘New Girl’ but get ready, because once high school starts you will be. Although it’ll be really hard at first, don't give up. Keep pushing. It’ll teach you some amazing life lessons, and you’ll meet some incredible people.
2. You’ll make friends
I know you probably don't want to hear this but, your best friend will be your brother. He’ll be the greatest friend you’ll ever have. Don’t worry you’ll make other really good friends that are also your teammates.
3. You’ll find a passion for helping others
I know right now you’re WAY to young to even think about a career, but you’ll end up finding great satisfaction in helping those in need. You’ll even major in a degree at college that will help you to better understand those people.
4. You’ll be insecure
This is normal. Everyone goes through this, but remember that you have family that loves you and will support you in every way possible. You’ll soon learn to love who you are becoming. I know right now it’s hard to picture yourself as confident, but I promise you'll get there.
5. You will lose people you love
Grandpa will pass away. It’ll be a very sad day for you, but the pain will begin to fade, and with all the love and support from your family it’ll become more bearable. Remember that he's always with you.
6. You’ll graduate high school
Right now, school is absolute hell for you. You found out not too long ago that you’re different and learning for you doesn't come as easy as it does for others, but you’ll eventually overcome this immense struggle. You’ll even write a speech about it and give it to your entire high school. No pressure, you’ll do great.
7. You’ll finally get a new dog
After years of not having one, you’ll eventually get a new one. She’ll be the cutest thing you’ve ever seen and become a life-long friend. You’ll miss her a lot when you leave for college.
8. You’ll go to college
You’ll find a place you can call home and feel comfortable there. Although you’ll miss home, being at the college you’re at will make it easier being away. You’ll even be a college athlete.
9. You’ll meet someone
Someone truly amazing that will take your happiness to a whole new level.
10. You’ll become the person you’ve always wanted to be
Even though you're scared of what the future holds and how fast time is moving, just know that you’ll make yourself proud with all the accomplishments you achieve. And remember to always stay true to yourself and never stop working for what you want.
