Let's be honest, strong people are
always attractive! They are mysterious and impregnable. Remember the
Great Gatsby or Barbara
Gittings and Kay Lahahusen;
Martin Luther King or Margarette Thatcher. Many of us probably dream to be with such a man or a woman.
When strong people are happy, they attract a lot of people who are ready to recharge their energy. But as soon as they have a problem... this is a direct path to disappointment. When someone asks them for help, they often drop everything and rush to the rescue. But when the scene is reversed, no one shows up to listen or offer help. The same person who gave so much time and effort is left alone with their problems.
Have you ever seen a strong person crying?
If so, consider yourself chosen. The strong man admits to very few the true depths of his soul. Although, maybe you will very surprised to find that inside of the strong person has the heart of a child. If you are one of the chosen, do not run away. Hold the child and nurse him for a day. They know how to be grateful, you'll see.
If the strong people seem confident, it does not mean that they have no doubt. They do not need your suggestions. They will find the right answer by themselves. However, it will only strengthen their understanding of global isolation from all the people in the face of important decisions.
The problem of the strong people
is that sometimes they think that others are like they are. They
naively expect the same of others, that they do what they think is right.
What is the advantage of being strong?
Perhaps the advantage lies in the fact that for many people you are invulnerable. The strong man chooses with whom he wants to communicate, and who can be without his attention. He dictates the rules of the game and choose which people he will never take the mask off for.
However, he sometimes has to pay for these privileges. Sometimes, he just wants to sit close to someone and talk about what's bothering you. Maybe he just wants to feel that you are not alone, to be sure that if he calls somebody will come to him without asking why.
Although the strong person must also be prepared for the blows of fate. He must not be surprised if in one day someone will not choose him.
There is a good news too: that person will be able to fight loneliness.
If you ever read the book Kolleen McCullough "The Thorn Birds", you probably remember the beloved Maggie's older brother Frank Cleary. Frank's figure created in the model of a strong spirit of a man. He keeps emotions inside himself. His mind is cold and rational. His heart is kind and true. Nevertheless, one day, when Frank decided to leave his parent's home to join the army, his father brought him back home. Frank desperately resisted, fought for his decision, but he was unable to defend his idea in front of his father. He was deeply hurt by this. Even as a strong man, he cried all the night on his youngest sister's shoulder, cried just like a baby. Maggie had not lost faith in her brother's strong spirit, but she realized that night, Frank trusts her so much that he was not afraid to bare his soul to her.
Love the strong people you know! They will lead you along and will trust when it counts!
