Transitioning from anything is always hard but especially from high school to college is a very big adjustment. I personally came to college thinking it would be ok and I would just figure it out as things occurred. However, I’m realizing now transitioning requires much more effort then I originally thought it would. I knew coming to college was not going to be easy but I thought at the bare minimum I was a strong enough individual to kinda at least cope through the process but I have started to think that maybe I’m not as strong as I think. Because, before classes have even officially start I can see the differences between summer and fall. As a result I can see the difference between the people, the environment, and the up keeping of the city to just name a few examples. But, one thing thats stayed the same for at least myself was even if my closes friends aren’t here and perhaps were not meeting each other eye to eye exactly but we still need each other more then ever. It's hard to say weren't not going to be seeing each other on the daily bases anymore but it's also hard thinking we techinally have to "replace one another". Although, it does sound quite ridiculous I feel like this is the issue I'm currently being faced with and it's very difficult to understand and accept. I wish college was a continuation of high school where I got to see my friends and family on the daily bases however unfortunely it's not and one must learn that it's okay. They are strong enough and have enough corage to accept this in each of our lives. Because, in the first place were going to college to learn about ourselves, skills, and attempting to find our place in society too. But as long as you know there are people there that care for you it doesn't matter where in the country or world you are but hopefully you will be able to pull through strongly and get through whatever patch your going through.
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Luckily, many colleges offer a number of ways to take part in campus and community life, without forcing you to dedicate all of your time to these organizations. Here are a few ideas!
1. Look into Housing and Dining.
Many first-year students start off college life in residence halls, and the Housing & Dining network throughout campus often provides multiple opportunities for students throughout the year. Many buildings have student community councils that work to create policies and events that make the dorms a more welcoming home for residents. Becoming a community assistant (or the students who work the desks at the front of many halls) is another easy way to have a consistent, well-paying job only minutes away from your room.
If you really enjoyed your housing experience, consider applying to be an RLA, or, if the school offers it, help to teach the first-year community. You'll get the chance to help support new and returning students over the year, and many of these positions also cover major costs like board and meal plans.
2. Pay attention to campus postings.
This advice is more obvious, but it still gets overlooked a fair amount. Even on a busy day, taking the time to stop around campus and look at the flyers advertising clubs and events can draw your attention to something that you never would've noticed otherwise. Students on many campuses also chalk the sidewalk to catch students' attention while they walk to class. Just make sure that the event you're interested in hasn't taken place already!
3. Find common interest groups.
One way to find friends and get involved is to focus on what you're passionate about. Have you always loved to sing? Do you enjoy playing video games? Is photography your favorite past-time? Have you always wanted to join Greek life? Whatever you love devoting your time to, chances are there are organizations around school who are focused on the same thing. Check the student life section of your university's website, or stop by a student organization fair at the beginning of the semester.
4. Join an intramural sports team.
If you're the athletic type, you've probably heard of intramural sports. Often offered through the Rec Center or the residence halls, most colleges often offer various indoor and outdoor sports to take part in throughout the year. Personal favorite? Mini golf.
5. Work on a cause that you care about.
Whether you're passionate about a political group, a social cause, or a religion, working with people who value beliefs similar to yours can be an easy way to meet people, get a better sense of your own identity, and promote causes that are important to you. Look into getting involved with College Democrats, Republicans, or whatever party that you belong to. Find a club that supports social issues, from women's rights to protecting the environment. If you're religious, look into student organizations based on your faith.
6. Join a club related to your major.
Even if you're not entirely sure what you want to do after school, finding a club or organization related to your field of studies can benefit you long after you leave the classroom. From career-related workshops to conferences to professional connections, these groups have a lot to boast.
7. Get an on-campus job.
If you have the time, need to work, or want to save a few extra dollars, finding a job on or near campus is a time-effective way to build up your bank account and gain work experience. Check in your residence hall (see #1), at local businesses and offices, or make an appointment with your school's career center.
8. Volunteer.
When you're caught up in school life, it can be hard to think about the bigger picture. Volunteering your time to people (or animals/an environment) in need puts things in perspective and allows you to feel good while making a positive difference. Check if your college town has a volunteer page, or look up local organizations requesting help.
Best of luck this year! Get out, and get busy.
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