Most people hear the word “nerd” and think one thing: a dorky person with glasses, little fashion sense, too much intelligence, and a whole lot of awkwardness. People picture piles of books, zero friends, and often some other physical flaw like acne or a hunchback. However, these stereotypical images of nerds are, like most stereotypes, sending the wrong message. It makes kids fear the stigma of being smart and standing out. It makes them fear their own brilliance and talent. Thusly, us nerds need to reclaim the title for ourselves to define.
To me being a nerd means being passionate about a subject or learning in general. It means that you are unique when compared to the majority of your classmates. The way you view life is different. You might prefer books or puzzles or games over parties. You might not care what’s in style or you might be obsessed with it. You love things and people (fictional and real) openly and proudly. And you may or may not wear glasses.
The point is nerds come in all shapes, sizes, and forms. Some might try to hide their nerdiness and blend into the crowd while others openly own theirs. But frankly, it doesn’t change anything. You are born being a nerd. It isn’t something you can help.
For as long as I can remember I have always been classified by friends and family alike as a nerd. I’m pretty sure most of them never meant it as an insult and I definitely never took it as one. That’s because I embrace being a nerd. I love to read and learn. I love to write and watch boring history documentaries on Friday nights.
And for the most part, this has never bothered me. Now, I’m not sure if it’s because I have always had friends who found my nerdiness endearing or funny instead of off-putting (and I’m sure they appreciated my help with homework) or if it’s because I grew up in a household of nerds all of whom have their own passions. But what I do know is that I am happy that I can proudly claim to be a Potterhead and to enjoy writing essays for school.
And with that I challenge all the nerds out there, closeted and not, to celebrate and accept themselves for who they are. You, my fellow nerds, are people who are amazed by the world, who are curious, creative, and unconventional. You are the people who have obsessions, the kind that keep you up at all hours of the night be it reading, painting, or math problems. You are the people who stand out because you have been blessed with a brain different than most. You are the people that one day might save the world. So be proud of who you are. Let your inner nerd be free.
