Think back to when you were young and how you would feel around this time of year. It's easy to argue that, as kids, most of us had built up anticipation for that magical day, December 25th. What caused that feeling for most of us as young children? Was it the food, the decorating traditions or the idea of spending time with family? Truthfully, probably not. And that's okay. Most kids have much bigger things on their minds around the holidays.
I'm sure that you all know what I'm talking about. Those intricately wrapped presents piled up like small mountains under the Christmas tree. That's the image that comes to mind that makes children excited for the holiday season. I experienced that thrill of opening presents and getting the next greatest thing that would come out in the toy industry. Now, I'm not afraid to admit that at all. It's a part of growing up. As I've matured over the years though, I'm glad to say that I realized something important.
The presents aren't as important to me anymore.
Let's forget about the holiday season for a moment. Do you realize how much we actually take for granted every day? How often do you open your eyes in the morning and feel thankful for your life? Your eyes alone are two of the greatest gifts you will ever open and yet sometimes that thought goes unrecognized.
Family is another significant aspect in everyone's lives. I know that most of us can pinpoint moments in which we really feel grateful to be a part of the family that raised us. Do you ever stop and think of the extent of what family members go through in order to take care of you though? I have to admit, I'm still realizing ways in which my family has taken care of me that go beyond my expectations.
Friends are important too. They're like family, depending on how well you know them. Friendships can be a bit more complex sometimes though. Sometimes, friends can go months without seeing one another. That doesn't mean that the friendship isn't valuable. In fact, sometimes it can be even more special when you see a friend again after such a long time. Conversations pick up again like they never ended and that is truly an amazing thing.
There are so many more things that I could mention but to me, these aspects of life are the most significant. Thanksgiving has come and gone but that doesn't mean that we have to stop reflecting on what we are grateful for. This article is a short one but it still conveys an important message. Be thankful for your life. For the natural gifts that often are taken for granted. Be appreciative of your friends and family, not just during this holiday season, but every day. Be grateful that you have someone to spend the holidays with and a warm house to celebrate in. Take some time out of your day to notice the little things that impact you the most. I promise that with this mindset, the holidays can be much more meaningful.