What Happens When Your Roommate Becomes Your Best Friend | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Student Life

What Happens When Your Roommate Becomes Your Best Friend

If you can live with them, then you'll probably be friends forever.

33
What Happens When Your Roommate Becomes Your Best Friend
Pexels

Your freshman year of college is already freaky enough as it is, but adding the fact that you will most likely be living with a complete stranger for a whole school year just adds on to that whole fear factor. It’s a hit or miss on the roommate lottery. But if you’re like me, you won big time on your first college roommate. You became best friends, inseparable, and you two are basically attached at the hip.

I can never thank my first roommate/best friend enough. She has seen me at my best and through my worst. She forgave me when I forgot to take out the trash, even though she asked me to do it yesterday, and she always was able to deal with my annoying sleep talking. Here’s a few things that mean you are rooming with your best friend:

1. You fight over really dumb things, but you always seem to make up.

2. She will change out of her sweatpants to go to a social event with you because you can’t just show up alone.

3. Hitting up that pizza place at 1 a.m. is never an arguable subject, no matter how much homework either of you have.

4. You know when to give her chocolate, advice or just when to call her on her crap. And of course, she knows when to do the same.

5. Your family and friends at some point have thought you were dating, but you both know your relationship is much closer than that.


6. You get her addicted to "Glee," and she gets you addicted to "Orange Is The New Black."

7. A planned night of hitting up house parties easily turns into a chocolate, wine and chill kind of night back in the comfort of your own dorm.

8. You have casual life talks until the break of dawn. Because, why the hell not?

9. You both take turns playing the mom role. You know what she has to have when her strep throat comes back, and she knows exactly what to do when you slice a part of your finger off at work. It’s casual.

10. You’ll probably fall asleep talking to each other.

11. You get so comfortable with each other to where pants become an option. You even dance to old Taylor Swift songs in baggy T-shirts and VS underwear almost daily.

12. Your room decoration slays everybody else's. Everything is matched perfectly and most of it wasn’t even planned. You may even come to school with the same bedspread, you never know.

13. You know EXACTLY what she means by her text messages. Even if it’s all jumbled, you get the point, though it may look like a foreign language to someone else.

14, You’re never lonely, but you know when the other needs their alone time.

15. She checks your selfies before you post them. I mean, help your sista out, ya know?

16. She knows all of your secrets, and you know all of hers. Both of you are basically dead if any of those secrets slip out.

17. She gets you, you get her, and basically every wall you’ve ever managed to build is broken by your wine-loving, choco-holic, boy-crazed best friend.


College is scary enough as it is, but if you manage to get lucky, your roommate will become your best friend through it all, no matter what. No matter how many fights you have over cleaning your side of the room, how many mornings she wakes you up early when she’s getting ready for her morning class and no matter how many mean looks she tries to give you after you ate the last piece of chocolate, you’re gonna love her. You’ll hate her guts sometimes, but you’ll always love her.

Your first college roommate will always hold a big piece of your heart, especially if you became as close as I did with mine. The acceptance that you experience rooming with the one person who knows you, every weird piece of you, is the best feeling you’ll ever have. The fun never really ends

So, here’s a giant thank you to my first college roommate. You helped mold me into the semi-cool, shopping-addicted, chocolate-loving girl I am today. You’re the best, best friend I’ve ever had, and I couldn’t have asked for a better first roomie.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

15 Mind-Bending Riddles

Hopefully they will make you laugh.

190996
 Ilistrated image of the planet and images of questions
StableDiffusion

I've been super busy lately with school work, studying, etc. Besides the fact that I do nothing but AP chemistry and AP economics, I constantly think of stupid questions that are almost impossible to answer. So, maybe you could answer them for me, and if not then we can both wonder what the answers to these 15 questions could be.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Most Epic Aurora Borealis Photos: October 2024

As if May wasn't enough, a truly spectacular Northern Lights show lit up the sky on Oct. 10, 2024

15315
stunning aurora borealis display over a forest of trees and lake
StableDiffusion

From sea to shining sea, the United States was uniquely positioned for an incredible Aurora Borealis display on Thursday, Oct. 10, 2024, going into Friday, Oct. 11.

It was the second time this year after an historic geomagnetic storm in May 2024. Those Northern Lights were visible in Europe and North America, just like this latest rendition.

Keep Reading...Show less
 silhouette of a woman on the beach at sunrise
StableDiffusion

Content warning: This article contains descriptions of suicide/suicidal thoughts.

When you are feeling down, please know that there are many reasons to keep living.

Keep Reading...Show less
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

458165
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

26779
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments