This holiday season, as we wrap up this wild year, we could use as much warmth and positivity as we can get. Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, an absolute icon that we should all admire, has a lot to teach us. As the mythology notes, Rudolph did not have it easy. Whether it be through the song (which, over the years, has become doused more and more with hilarious adlibs) or the TV movie special, Rudolph will forever be a pretty rad guy in my heart. Here's why.
1. But do you recall? The most patient reindeer of all?
No matter how many times Rudolph was ridiculed for being different, he never resorted to violence or hatred as a response. Even when everyone alienated him, he never lashed out. He remained patient in his adventures, never giving up despite how many obstacles he faced. During the holiday season, times can get stressful, whether it have to do with money or family or school-related stressors, but try to take deep breaths as you think about what you say or before you get frustrated or angry. Focusing on your breathing is the best thing that you can do in overwhelming situations -- fighting over the last Tickle-Me-Elmo (do they still make these?) with a super aggressive soccer mom or being forced to listen to your extremist uncle ramble on about politics when you just want to enjoy your eggnog. Patience is key to overcoming obstacles, just as our good friend Rudolph can attest. Everything works out in the end.
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2. Find your own Island of Misfit Toys
It is so crucial that in times where you are feeling outcasted to know that there are so many people feeling this way as well. Your feelings are completely valid. Take the admittedly frightening first step and reach out, whether it be for help or to help other people. Who knows, maybe you'll find your own version of that little dentistry-loving elf. Surround yourself with people who embrace what makes you-you while you do disgustingly sweet holiday activities together, like cutting out paper snowflakes or drinking an entire box's worth of hot chocolate.
3. Shiny, light bulb-esque, anatomically-confusing red nose and all
As cliche as it is, what makes you different really does make you great. Just take Rudolph for example, that kid had an entire song about how fresh he is, shiny, light bulb-esque, anatomically-confusing red nose and all. This one is definitely easier said than done, but if you actively look for techniques that promote self-love that work for you, it really does help. Whether it be looking in the mirror and saying out loud what you like about yourself, taking a little while to treat yourself (I suggest Glee Christmas specials and at least three soft blankets), or working on a favorite hobby, remind yourself of your worth.
4. Believe in yourself, and you'll be smooth-sledding(?)
Not to go totally analytical here, especially as my AP Lit days are behind me, but what if Rudolph's nose symbolized optimism? No matter who (I'm looking at you, Donner) tried to cover it up, it was always there, glowing as brightly as ever. If you approach things with an optimistic attitude or try to make the effort to transform your more pessimistic perspectives or thoughts as they arise, eventually you will feel as though you have more control over your thoughts. This spreads throughout your life in every interaction you have or situation you may face. Especially as finals start rolling in, this is crucial. If you think that you are going to fail or do poorly, you will struggle much more than if you believe in yourself and your abilities. Trying to have an optimistic mindset will help to relieve so much anxiety so that you'll be smooth-sailing (or, I guess, sledding, in this instance) for all of this season's stressors, and finally, be able to enjoy what makes the holidays so wonderful.
5. Warning: There is a very bad pun in this one
Do with this last one what you will, but the most important thing you can learn from Rudolph, is that anytime during the holidays is a prime time to break into song. If anyone gives you a weird look, turn the volume up. Get out there and sleigh (I will never make a pun again, don't worry).
