There are two types of girls in the world, girls with
finstas (fake Instagram) and girls without. I happen to be part of the group of
girls who do have finsta and I would never go back. I have my real Instagram and
believe me I love posting nice pictures of me and my friends, the occasional
selfie, and the rare artsy food picture (not typically my Instagram style, but
occasionally.) But then there’s the world of finsta. Let me define Instagram’s
for you in 3 words. Reckless, savage, scary. Just too put it into prospective
if anybody who I did not approve to see my finsta saw it, I would be mortified,
a little embarrassed and then shunned from society (only slightly kidding about
this one.) The world of finsta gives girls away to express themselves freely to
about 50 of their closes friends. If you were to given permission to visit that
typical girls finsta the pictures you would see could vary from the ugliest
selfies, to embarrassing pictures of their friends, too reckless picture of
them or their friends and the chosen boy from the night before, too screenshots
of text messages that are too scary to even put into words.
The morning after a great or even bad night out you will see
Instagram feeds full of finstas stating things you couldn’t imagine in your
wildest dreams, the most savage comments and ever dreaded drunk picture of yourself
you didn’t know your friend took. When you are posting a finstagram everything is
fair game. Finstagram lives by the saying “If you can’t take the heat, get out of
the kitchen” but finsta would say that in a lot more savage terms. Most girls
who have finsta post on their finstagrams more then there real instagrams. When
posting on real Instagram you need to make sure your picture is perfectly
edited, your hair looks great, your make up on point but at the same time look
like you didn’t even try to take that picture even though you have 350 others
in your camera roll that look exactly like that one. Posting a finstagram is a
whole different game, posting a finsta you look for the most reckless, crazy,
hilarious, ugliest, best type of black mail picture there is. Along with the picture
you need a hilarious caption to go along with it that all your friends will
love. There are only a few rules of finstagram, be reckless, don’t get offended
and learn to laugh at yourself. Life isn’t always serious and I think
finstagrams give girls a chance to step out of the “perfect” life they portray
on Instagram and show a whole different side of themselves on their finstagrams
without a care in the world. A girl finstagram is like a door to her true self,
if a girl lets you follow her finstagram, you truly are blessed. Girls of the
world, keep strutting your stuff a finstagram. To the girls who don’t have one,
it will change your life forever.
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Luckily, many colleges offer a number of ways to take part in campus and community life, without forcing you to dedicate all of your time to these organizations. Here are a few ideas!
1. Look into Housing and Dining.
Many first-year students start off college life in residence halls, and the Housing & Dining network throughout campus often provides multiple opportunities for students throughout the year. Many buildings have student community councils that work to create policies and events that make the dorms a more welcoming home for residents. Becoming a community assistant (or the students who work the desks at the front of many halls) is another easy way to have a consistent, well-paying job only minutes away from your room.
If you really enjoyed your housing experience, consider applying to be an RLA, or, if the school offers it, help to teach the first-year community. You'll get the chance to help support new and returning students over the year, and many of these positions also cover major costs like board and meal plans.
2. Pay attention to campus postings.
This advice is more obvious, but it still gets overlooked a fair amount. Even on a busy day, taking the time to stop around campus and look at the flyers advertising clubs and events can draw your attention to something that you never would've noticed otherwise. Students on many campuses also chalk the sidewalk to catch students' attention while they walk to class. Just make sure that the event you're interested in hasn't taken place already!
3. Find common interest groups.
One way to find friends and get involved is to focus on what you're passionate about. Have you always loved to sing? Do you enjoy playing video games? Is photography your favorite past-time? Have you always wanted to join Greek life? Whatever you love devoting your time to, chances are there are organizations around school who are focused on the same thing. Check the student life section of your university's website, or stop by a student organization fair at the beginning of the semester.
4. Join an intramural sports team.
If you're the athletic type, you've probably heard of intramural sports. Often offered through the Rec Center or the residence halls, most colleges often offer various indoor and outdoor sports to take part in throughout the year. Personal favorite? Mini golf.
5. Work on a cause that you care about.
Whether you're passionate about a political group, a social cause, or a religion, working with people who value beliefs similar to yours can be an easy way to meet people, get a better sense of your own identity, and promote causes that are important to you. Look into getting involved with College Democrats, Republicans, or whatever party that you belong to. Find a club that supports social issues, from women's rights to protecting the environment. If you're religious, look into student organizations based on your faith.
6. Join a club related to your major.
Even if you're not entirely sure what you want to do after school, finding a club or organization related to your field of studies can benefit you long after you leave the classroom. From career-related workshops to conferences to professional connections, these groups have a lot to boast.
7. Get an on-campus job.
If you have the time, need to work, or want to save a few extra dollars, finding a job on or near campus is a time-effective way to build up your bank account and gain work experience. Check in your residence hall (see #1), at local businesses and offices, or make an appointment with your school's career center.
8. Volunteer.
When you're caught up in school life, it can be hard to think about the bigger picture. Volunteering your time to people (or animals/an environment) in need puts things in perspective and allows you to feel good while making a positive difference. Check if your college town has a volunteer page, or look up local organizations requesting help.
Best of luck this year! Get out, and get busy.
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