Chandler Bing, the beloved IT procurement manager and cynical addition to the rowdy group of New Yorkers we all love to watch on Friends. With Thanksgiving and Christmas coming up Chandler's exasperation with the world around him feels more relatable than ever. Here are 12 times we could all relate to Mr. Chandler Bing.

1. When faced with a friend's problem

Because we can't all be Dr. Phil.

2. Dessert is always worth it

Some mistakes are worth making, right? Eat the cheesecake.

3. The weekly struggle of every college student

It's okay, you'll figure it out eventually.

4. Meeting new people isn't always fun

A lot of the time it's pretty darn stressful.

5. When everyone around you is in relationships

Don't worry, your Monica will come in time. And it'll be totally great.

6. Being driven and also taking personality quizzes

You can pretend you don't click that Buzzfeed link to find out which Friend's character you are, but we all know you did.

7. Goals for every day

Chandler knows how to plan a Monday afternoon.

8. When you're honest about your relationship status

We've all been there, Chandler.

9. When it's too early to deal with anyone

Maybe sometimes honesty isn't the best policy.

10. Some days you just have to dance it out

TSwift, Grey's Anatomy and (most importantly) Chadler all know it.

11. When you find your Monica

Because it's going to happen, even if it hasn't yet.

12. Having great friends

Even when you're awkward and hopeless and desperate for love, they're all there for you.