Last week, a man called 'Brother Dean' was arrested at the University of Arizona for kicking a sorority girl while he was 'preaching' on campus. Honestly, him getting arrested may have been the best thing to happen at the U of A because he spread propaganda and hate towards different groups on campus, especially Greek life. 'Brother Dean' would bring signs to the campus stating hateful things including "Sorority Girls Are Whores" and "You Deserve Rape", both being untrue and disturbing statements. These kinds of sayings are just a few of the hateful things said about Greek life, especially sororities. Greek life is looked down upon by society and the rumors that are spread about it are simply not true. As a member of a Greek organization, I can assure you that not all of the rumors and stereotypes about sorority women are true. People often refer to sorority women as "Bimbos" or "Brainless Sluts" assuming we lack intelligence and are all party girls. Personally, some of the smartest people I know are girls in my house or women that have come from a Greek organization. Inspirational women such as Tory Burch (Kappa Alpha Theta), Kate Spade (Kappa Kappa Gamma), and even Dr. Condeleezza Rice who served as the 66th United States Secretary of State (Alpha Chi Omega) were in sororities. Greek life is commonly criticized by individuals who have never been apart of a Greek organization. They make untrue assumptions about the organizations when they don't know what being a member of a sorority or fraternity actually means. They assume that we "buy our friends" when in reality, we pay to be apart of an organization that gives back to the community through philanthropy and gets involved on campuses nationwide. So what if your friends all happen to be in your house? You spend so much time at the house eating meals and participating in events that it'd be sad if you didn't have friends in the house. For me, being a part of Greek life gave me a home away from home, somewhere I could go and be surrounded by people who understand me. At any hour of the day, I could go to the house and one of my sisters would be there to talk. What people don't understand about Greek life is that being a part of a Greek organization does not make us women "whores" or make any member in a sorority or fraternity "dumb", instead it allows us to be a part of a community that has the power to make a difference in the lives of many through community service and involvement. Sororities were founded on the aspects of sisterhood, values and ethics, high academic standards and social responsibility. So before you say something negative about Greek life, get your facts straight.
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1. When you see each other after a hiatus it is like no time has passed.
Regardless of what you may have gone through, nothing can change the banter and personal communication you and your friends share. Nothing feels awkward or forced because you are having too much fun catching up!
2. You plan your outings around each other's schedules.
Your friend's work schedules or class schedules are memorized like the back of your hand. They are your priority, and you will do anything you can to get them to join you on adventures when it is convenient to do so.
3. You say 'I love you' on the phone.
Yes, you may say it in real life too, but saying it after a phone call means it has become a customary for you to validate your appreciate for one other. Like a significant other or family member, you feel the desire to express your love at the end of a conversation.
4. Nothing is boring when you are together.
No matter what you do together, you always have a good time. Why? Because your friends' company is all you need. With the right people, you can make any situation memorable.
5. You share weird inside jokes no one else understands.
And you would like to keep it that way. If you are anything like my friend group, we share a strange family dynamic that has lasted as a running joke forever. No matter what it is, your inside jokes and sly smirks will keep the spirits up for ages.
6. You plan to hang out for a couple hours but end up together the entire day.
So now you just expect it and prepare for a 24-hour long get-together. Naps are often a part of the agenda.
7. The hugs say a thousand words.
Perhaps you do it a little too much, but the hugs you share are always meaningful and comforting. Gotta love those group hugs especially!
8. You go on spontaneous adventures together.
It is where your favorite memories come from. Even though you might not be able to do them as much as you would like, you are always down for a trip, big or small, with the group.
9. You consider each other family.
Because you consider each other family, you treat each other like family. Constant love, constant support, and a tremendous amount of meals spent together.
10. They make you a better person.
It is not a special friend group unless you learn from one another. You had to be selective when choosing your friends and when you did, you felt like they could teach you a thing or two. Their actions influence who you are and you could not be more thankful.
11. You can't imagine life without them.
The very thought scares you and sends your heart racing. Thankfully, the ultimate friend group is right there with you so you never have to second-guess their loyalty. Instead, you can bask in the glory that is your ultimate friend group. #squadgoals.
1. No school = no stress.
There are no essays to write, no books to read, and no deadlines to meet. The only worry in the world is keeping track of putting sunblock on.
2. Country music is more fun to listen to.
All true fans will listen to country music 365 days a year, but we all know that it's so much better in the summer when you can roll down the windows.
3. Your skin looks and feels better.
Even if you don't have the type of skin that tans, there is more color there than in the winter ... maybe. Freckles, tan lines, peeling burns and clear skin make for a happier camper. You'll forget all about the ghost version of yourself that was shedding dry skin like a snake over the winter.
4. Being barefoot 24/7 is an option.
Obviously wearing no shoes in the middle of a blizzard isn't acceptable. You know what is, though? Wearing no shoes in the summer ever because why not?
5. Ice cream is an acceptable snack.
For people like me who can't resist ice cream even on a 10 degree day, summer is a giant ice cream blessing. Not only does it taste like heaven, it's actually refreshing.
6. Minimal clothing is required.
Is there anything worse than having to put on layers in the wintertime only to sweat to death the minute you come back inside? No need for more than a tank top and shorts in the summertime.
7. Going to the beach daily isn't weird.
Now that it's hot, it's beach season. If you live near the ocean there is an excuse to drive there day or night, rain or shine. Staying there all day is an option for those who don't burn, and for those who do, you can always come back at night for a bonfire.
8. Cookouts.
Even when they lead to disaster, summertime cookouts are the best. Nothing completes a cookout more than watermelon and corn on the cob.
9. Night swimming.
Oh the thrill of jumping in freezing cold water in the middle of the night. Good thing the air becomes colder than the water, making the pool like a giant bathtub.
10. Spontaneous adventures.
Summertime gives you the freedom to wake up in the morning and decide to do something totally out of the blue that you've never done before. Hiking to a waterfall, rock climbing, going to a museum, or even road tripping are all great summer options.
Even if the heat isn't really your thing, it's undeniable to admit that life really is better in the summer. There's so much more free time, opportunity, excitement and sunshine. Only four months to go!
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